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If there is one thing I hate about this board it is the...

bstngrl578bstngrl578 member
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"Mind your own business" responses.... Seriously. Anything people ask about or are curious about it is because YOU put it out there at one point or another. Don't put it out there if you don't want people to be all up in your business. If you talk about it - expect people to be curious about it. Period.

(SC - this is not directed at you. I was on my maternity leave hiatus when all your stuff went down - so I really have no idea about the whole situation. I am talking in general!)

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  • SadiesmamaSadiesmama
    Lol. It doesn't bother me. I did post an update, and kept in touch with some people when I wasn't on here.
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  • Ashley PharezAshley Pharez
    And this is the response I hate.
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  • shari_rnglesonshari_rngleson member
    funny!  i have never seen a "mind your own business" response.  i always miss all the good stuff!
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  • SunndraggonSunndraggon member

    imageexcitedforlittleone:
    And this is the response I hate.

    Why do you hate this response? It's honest and it's true. Not trying to be argumentative, but can you explain what is wrong with saying it?

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  • bstngrl578bstngrl578 member
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    imageexcitedforlittleone:
    And this is the response I hate.
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  • Fish4FunFish4Fun
    I only caught the tail end of that stuff, so I have no idea either.  I agree about the whole internet privacy thing, but it's also nice that she has people standing up for her.
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  • bstngrl578bstngrl578 member

    imageFish4Fun:
    but it's also nice that she has people standing up for her.

    Definitely agree. 

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  • Ashley PharezAshley Pharez
    imageSunndraggon:

    imageexcitedforlittleone:
    And this is the response I hate.

    Why do you hate this response? It's honest and it's true. Not trying to be argumentative, but can you explain what is wrong with saying it?

    Because....regardless of what you say on this board your business if your business and if you don't want to share anymore you don't have to.

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  • SunndraggonSunndraggon member
    imageexcitedforlittleone:
    imageSunndraggon:

    imageexcitedforlittleone:
    And this is the response I hate.

    Why do you hate this response? It's honest and it's true. Not trying to be argumentative, but can you explain what is wrong with saying it?

    Because....regardless of what you say on this board your business if your business and if you don't want to share anymore you don't have to.

    I get where you are coming from, especially given your recent experience. BUT, just because you don't want to share anymore, does not mean people won't ask questions, and you have to be honest and admit that those questions come from info you put out there at one point or another.

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  • Ashley PharezAshley Pharez
    imageSunndraggon:
    imageexcitedforlittleone:
    imageSunndraggon:

    imageexcitedforlittleone:
    And this is the response I hate.

    Why do you hate this response? It's honest and it's true. Not trying to be argumentative, but can you explain what is wrong with saying it?

    Because....regardless of what you say on this board your business if your business and if you don't want to share anymore you don't have to.

    I get where you are coming from, especially given your recent experience. BUT, just because you don't want to share anymore, does not mean people won't ask questions, and you have to be honest and admit that those questions come from info you put out there at one point or another.

    You are right people have a right to be interested but I basically got badgered over and over again about it when I said I did not want to share any more details.  People should have just  left it alone and they didn't.  Maybe I'm bitter but whatever.  You specifically mentioned SC's problems in your post....my point was who cares?! Why bring up past drama?  I'm sure she's not proud of what she's been through.  Just leave it alone.  Bringing up old drama is stupid.

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