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what the hell body?

Mike*sBride2BMike*sBride2B
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What is going on? I keep thinking my chart looks pretty good (stalkers please take a look) but I keep getting BFN!! My boobs hurt like hell and have been since the middle of last week. I also had a few cramps around dpo 8 so I have no idea what is going on. I guess I should just keep testing til AF shows :(
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  • ams8099ams8099 member
    It's really hard to say with all those open circles. I wouldn't even count on those CHs.
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  • lyse2143lyse2143 member
    Yeah you can't be sure you're 12dpo with those open circles. Just keep waiting for AF, and if it doesn't come in a few days test again.
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  • Mike*sBride2BMike*sBride2B
    Well the open cirlce are because I vary my wake time by 30-60 minutes because I work nights. I had a +opk on days 17 and 18 too but I didn't put them in cause I believed my temp spike more than opks. So who knows. I have talked to others who worked nights and had just as many open circles as me and they got pg so even though they are dotted CHs I still kinda believe them and we had sex twice that day (very rare for us but we did it before I even knew that was my O day)
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  • lyse2143lyse2143 member
    You should still put in the + OPKs. I know Weathermanswife works at night and can help you out with that. However, with all of those open circles you cannot be positive that you O'd when FF says you did.
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  • Mike*sBride2BMike*sBride2B
    I have talked to her before and I talk to high hopes often too and she works nights. I guess I will just keep waiting. Thanks for the advice ladies! It makes me feel better with you reassurance:)
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    imageMike*sBride2B:
    Well the open cirlce are because I vary my wake time by 30-60 minutes because I work nights. I had a +opk on days 17 and 18 too but I didn't put them in cause I believed my temp spike more than opks. So who knows. I have talked to others who worked nights and had just as many open circles as me and they got pg so even though they are dotted CHs I still kinda believe them and we had sex twice that day (very rare for us but we did it before I even knew that was my O day)

    If you had +OPKs on those days then your CH are way off. You need to include them in your chart. If your waking time varies so much, then you need to do a better job at checking CM.

    Also, just because other people can successfully chart and get pregnant with varied waking times doesn't mean it will work for you.

    It sounds like you are manipulating your chart to have it say what you want it to say.

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    imageMike*sBride2B:
    Well the open cirlce are because I vary my wake time by 30-60 minutes because I work nights. I had a +opk on days 17 and 18 too but I didn't put them in cause I believed my temp spike more than opks. So who knows. I have talked to others who worked nights and had just as many open circles as me and they got pg so even though they are dotted CHs I still kinda believe them and we had sex twice that day (very rare for us but we did it before I even knew that was my O day)

    If you had +OPKs on those days then your CH are way off. You need to include them in your chart. If your waking time varies so much, then you need to do a better job at checking CM.

    Also, just because other people can successfully chart and get pregnant with varied waking times doesn't mean it will work for you.

    It sounds like you are manipulating your chart to have it say what you want it to say.

    I am not manipulating my chart to have it say what I want! And I know just because other people are successful doesn't mean that I will be just like them. And CM doesn't predict O so I am not too worried about checking it. If I see it I chart, otherwise I don't care. Since temp spikes are the only true way to know that is all I care. No need to get crappy with me. I know it says I am a newbie, but I have lurked a ton and done my research, so trust me I know my *** too (oh and I am a nurse so I know about the female body!)
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    imageMike*sBride2B:
    imageams8099:

    imageMike*sBride2B:
    Well the open cirlce are because I vary my wake time by 30-60 minutes because I work nights. I had a +opk on days 17 and 18 too but I didn't put them in cause I believed my temp spike more than opks. So who knows. I have talked to others who worked nights and had just as many open circles as me and they got pg so even though they are dotted CHs I still kinda believe them and we had sex twice that day (very rare for us but we did it before I even knew that was my O day)

    If you had +OPKs on those days then your CH are way off. You need to include them in your chart. If your waking time varies so much, then you need to do a better job at checking CM.

    Also, just because other people can successfully chart and get pregnant with varied waking times doesn't mean it will work for you.

    It sounds like you are manipulating your chart to have it say what you want it to say.

    I am not manipulating my chart to have it say what I want! And I know just because other people are successful doesn't mean that I will be just like them. And CM doesn't predict O so I am not too worried about checking it. If I see it I chart, otherwise I don't care. Since temp spikes are the only true way to know that is all I care. No need to get crappy with me. I know it says I am a newbie, but I have lurked a ton and done my research, so trust me I know my *** too (oh and I am a nurse so I know about the female body!)

    Simmer down, I'm not getting crappy you with. CM is a very good indicator for ovulation. If you had several days of EWCM followed by dry at your CH, then your CH would be more believable.   If you have nothing, then you should mark it as dry, not leave it blank. You have very few days of CM charted with wacky temp.  Honestly, your chart is very unreliable with the lack of OPKs, CM, and open circles. 

    You were complaining about your BFNs,  I gave you my 2 cents, you basically said, "other girls did it this way and it worked for them, so it's OK for me to do it too" It just sounded like the "they did it so I can too" excuse, and it's is a huge petpeev of mine.

    You asked for chart stalkers to look at your chart. I looked at your chart and gave you my opinion and you didn't like what I had to say. Thats all there is to it.

     

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  • Mike*sBride2BMike*sBride2B
    sorry about my mood, been cranky for about a week according to DH! I see CM sometimes but forget to chart it cause I usually see it at work and don't have access. I really pay attention to my temps since that is the only true way to know you O'd so I always remember to do that at least. It is hard for me not to not gave open circles cause I don't always get to sleep or wake at the same time cause of work, so i make sure I get at least 3 hours or more of solid sleep to get my BBT. I really don't know what else to do so I guess I will just play it by ear. Sorry I got crappy ams:( my apologies!
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  • ams8099ams8099 member
    It's ok, we all have our moments. Have you thought about using a CBEFM? Are you cycles regular?
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