We've decided on Eion Henry for our little guy...Eion pronounced (Ian) everyone always asks...which brings me to my question. Is the spelling to weird. We picked that spelling because it's Irish and we're both part Irish..not to mention it's very different. What do you guys think?
Re: The girl name post got me thinking...
Since you are asking our opinion, I think it is way too weird.
it is pretty different. NMS. i would get tired of having to tell people how to pronounce it.
my maiden name was hard for some people to figure out and it was a little frustrating. i can't imagine if my first name was difficult.
BUT at the end of the day, it is your kid and your decision.
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IMO, I like regular spellings, but I also first thought the name was Elon... E-l-o-n b/c of the way it looked on the computer. ?Just something to think about.?
But it's your child, you get to name & spell however you wish
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I agree, its too weird. I like Ian, but the spelling throws me off. It may be Irish but to me it looks like one that just added letters to be "unique".
But, your kid, not mine. Spell however you wish!
This is exactly what I thought it was, until you clarified the Ian thing. Wierd spellings aren't really my thing.
Or people will call him "eon". That's how it read in my mind.
Ditto... A little too strange for me.
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Wow. It never ceases to amaze me how people lump language/ethnicity spellings into the same category as "weird" or "made-up" spellings. That is such blatant ethnocentrism!
I think your name is great, and kudos to you for being true to the Irish language and, thus, your heritage.
(FWIW, "Ian" is a Scottish name, not any more American or "normal" than "Eion.")
I don't think it's ethnocentric to point out to someone that people are going to butcher the name they chose. Not everyone in America has Irish heritage and thus will be familiar with this non-english spelling. That doesn't mean she can't choose that name, but seeing as I'm guessing 99% of people who choose Gaelic names in the U.S. don't speak a lick of the language, I do think it's kind of weird. Why not spell it in the language you and most of your countrymen actually speak? It has an english equivalent. That's just my opinion. It's your kid so name it what you want, just don't get pissed when I can't pronounce it.
And FWIW, Ian may be Scottish, but it is also the english phonetic equivalent of the name. So anyone who is literate in english should be able to pronounce it.
You are correct. Pointing out that people might mispronounce it isn't an ethnocentric comment, and I didn't say it was. It was the other comments about the fact that it's "weird"; THOSE were ethnocentric and condescending to another culture/language. "Why not spell it in a language you and most of your countrymen actually speak?" There are many reasons: One, I didn't know English (or Scottish?) was the official language in the U.S. That's news to me. Two, many people still feel strongly attached to their heritage. Is that so wrong? I'm not using any English-lanuage name for my baby. I don't see why I have to cater my choice to what "most of my countrymen" speak, and neither does the OP. Naming a child shouldn't be based upon whether people around you can automatically pronounce it on the first try; it should be based on what it means to you, whether it's English, Pashto, Mandarin, or "made up."
Anyway, I've said my piece. I think if some people stepped out of their American bubble a few times, they'd be able to see the utter beauty in all cultures.
Hmmm...I'm not sure what to think about Eion. I've never heard of it and would have guessed Eon or Ion. What about Eian? Could that be a possibility? I have a traditional Irish name too (brigid) which I love though it is always mis-spelled and even more suprising to me, often mispronounced. People sometimes seem to think it's a soft g like in BIG. That one pisses me off for some reason if someone says brig-id but the misspelling I'm used to. It does get frustrating trying to spell it for people, especially if giving my email address for work over the phone etc. When your name is common but spelled differently people automatically start writing it the way they know and then get all sorts of confused trying to go back and correct it. I just learned that if I have to spell it for someone I don't say it aloud first. That way they don't automatically start writing it wrong. Good luck
p.s. you could post on the baby names board too if you want a whole slew of other opinons!