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Saying goodbye, but hope to be back soon!

Unfortunately our baby stopped growing around 7-8 weeks and now it's over.  My D&C is scheduled for tomorrow.  I am devastated (especially since we previously saw a heartbeat) but still hopeful.  The baby was measuring a little behind at our first ultrasound and I had a deep down feeling something was wrong - even though I didn't have any spotting, cramping, bleeding - nothing.  At this point my RE thinks this was just really bad luck.  Fortunately our IVF cycle was successful and we have 11 on freeze.  We'll start a FET when my body is back to normal.  I wish everyone the best with their pregnancies and hope to be back soon!      

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry. I hope you are back here soon!!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss (((hugs)))
    A lot of years and a million tears finally led me to you.
    After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • Keep that positive attitude.  Sometimes that's the only thing that gets us through.  Hope to see you soon!

    In the meantime...have a glass of wine for me:)

  • Oh no, I'm so sorry, I've been there and it's devastating.  Hope to see you back here soon w/ one of those frosties.  Take care.
    Our miracle IVF baby - D 6/09 & J - Surprise! born 9/10!!!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss... (((hugs)))
  • I am so sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking about you tomorrow. ((hugs))

    Best of luck with your FET. Hope to see you back over here soon!

  • I am so so sorry for your loss.  (((hugs))))  best of luck.
  • I'm so sorry.  Hope the D&C goes well and that we'll see you back here pronto!

    ((((hugs))))

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    I'm so so sorry.  Please take care. 
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    I am so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry:(  GL with your FET and I hope to see you back very soon.
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  • I am sooo sorry. {{HUGS}}
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss.  The same thing happened to me - we saw a HB, baby was a little behind (but it was a natural cycle so I wasnt sure when I O'ed - but I still felt like something was wrong) and then no HB.  Any mc is devastating, but there is just a little more sting when it happens this way.  Take care of yourself and I hope you feel better soon.
    TTC#1 since Feb 07 with PCOS and mild MFI
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  • So sorry for your loss.  GL in the future!
  • I'm so very sorry. The same thing happened to me. Take care of yourself!
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  • Oh hon. I am so, so, so sorry for your loss. Good luck tomorrow. Please take care of yourself. HUGS
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. :( I'm glad are feeling somewhat hopeful though at least.
  • i'm so sorry for your loss.
  • Oh, I am so sorry.  Take care and best of luck tomorrow.
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  • *hugs* I'm so sorry...I hope you're back here soon with a sticky baby.
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    Oh no - I'm so, so sorry.  Sending you healing thoughts and hoping we see you soon.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs))
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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    I speak from our own experience - we had our baby tested after our d&c at 13 wks and found out why it happened.  It provided good closure for us knowing that we did nothing wrong and it was inevitable that we would loose the baby.  You may want to ask about testing for your own peace of mind.  I also had no spotting or any warnings something was wrong.

     

  • I am so sorry!
  • I am so sorry for your loss. We had 11 frosties and my little guy is a product of a FET.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself and I really hope you're back here soon.
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  • I am sorry, hope to see you back soon.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Good luck with yoru FET and we hope to see you back soon.  Take care of yourself.
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  • Oh honey, I feel your pain.

    I just went through this myself, it's nothing less than horrible.

    If you need a shoulder to cry on, or something to kick, just email me or find me on FB. The m/c loss board has been very nice too.

     

    I  am sooo sooo sorry.

    -Tracie

     

    (david_and_tracie  at ya hoooo)

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  • i am so sorry to hear that :(?

    i hope so much we will see you very soon, GREAT LUCK with the FET and please keep us updated?

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  • I am so sorry.  I hope to see you back here soon.  God Bless.
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    I've very sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I hope you have a successful FET as soon as you are ready.
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