Unfortunately our baby stopped growing around 7-8 weeks and now it's over. My D&C is scheduled for tomorrow. I am devastated (especially since we previously saw a heartbeat) but still hopeful. The baby was measuring a little behind at our first ultrasound and I had a deep down feeling something was wrong - even though I didn't have any spotting, cramping, bleeding - nothing. At this point my RE thinks this was just really bad luck. Fortunately our IVF cycle was successful and we have 11 on freeze. We'll start a FET when my body is back to normal. I wish everyone the best with their pregnancies and hope to be back soon!
Re: Saying goodbye, but hope to be back soon!
After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
My Christmas baby turned into a turkey bird! Dillon Richard was born at 34 weeks, 5 days on November 28, 2009 after 10 weeks on bedrest for preeclampsia.
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Keep that positive attitude. Sometimes that's the only thing that gets us through. Hope to see you soon!
In the meantime...have a glass of wine for me:)
I am so sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking about you tomorrow. ((hugs))
Best of luck with your FET. Hope to see you back over here soon!
I'm so sorry. Hope the D&C goes well and that we'll see you back here pronto!
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2 chem preg, 4 failed IUIs, 2 canc IVFs, 2 BFN IVFs, IVF #5 = BFP!!!
3/23 Beta #1 @ 17dpo = 913, Beta #2 @ 19dpo = 1724, Beta #3 @ 21 dpo = 3240
First u/s 3/29 @ 5 weeks 2 days - 3 sacs 6 weeks 3 days - 3 heartbeats 8 Weeks - Lost Baby C, Babies A and B going strong
Savannah
Callista
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"Someday we will look at our babies and know it will be worth it. If it was easy, we would not have had our babies, the babies we were meant to have." From Amy052006
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart) Our first love and loss 7/2/07
3 cycles clomid TI = BFNs
3 cycles clomid Ovidrel IUI = BFNs
6/27/08 Surprise BFP = chemical pg
IVF#1 July 08 BFP @7dp3dt
TTC #3 since February 2010
FET Sept. and Oct. 2010=BFN's
IVF#2 June 2011=BFP
I am a runner, knitter, scientist, DE-IVF veteran, and stage III colon cancer survivor.
look at the birds | bless this food
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I speak from our own experience - we had our baby tested after our d&c at 13 wks and found out why it happened. It provided good closure for us knowing that we did nothing wrong and it was inevitable that we would loose the baby. You may want to ask about testing for your own peace of mind. I also had no spotting or any warnings something was wrong.
After a loss at 13wks and years dealing with IF and failed treatments (3 failed IUI and 1 failed IVF), we have been blessed with DS (surprise BFP) and now his little sister (2nd round of clomid and TI) on her way.
Oh honey, I feel your pain.
I just went through this myself, it's nothing less than horrible.
If you need a shoulder to cry on, or something to kick, just email me or find me on FB. The m/c loss board has been very nice too.
I am sooo sooo sorry.
-Tracie
(david_and_tracie at ya hoooo)
i am so sorry to hear that
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i hope so much we will see you very soon, GREAT LUCK with the FET and please keep us updated?
Joey, Ronnie, and Audrey,
my awesome IUI 30 week twins, and my surprise miracle
LOVE my SAIF ladies