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I swear DH gave me permission to have a PG "accident"

AgrippaAgrippa
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Last night, after a few beers, DH said to me (in a sweet, mushy tone) "You know, I love DS so much that I wouldn't be upset at all if we had an accident.  I think I even would be happy."

He apparently doesn't realize that I'm still quite content with having an only child.  Or, maybe he does know, and that's why he had a few beers first.

::Sigh::  I have no desire to be PG again.  I hated it.  I have more of a fear of labor, delivery, and the first few weeks of PP than I did before I had DS.  I really, really don't want to go through it again.  I also don't want to deal with 12 weeks of h3ll with a newborn and have to deal with a toddler too.

Maybe I'm freaking out for nothing, and DH isn't actually getting baby fever.


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Re: I swear DH gave me permission to have a PG "accident"

  • Aidens__mommyAidens__mommy
    Sounds just like my DH! But we are just not ready money wise to have another one after our first "accident" hehe But DH has been talking about having #2 a lot latley. I think he has baby fever more than I do!

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  • IckyThumpIckyThump
    Eh, at this point I'd chalk it up to him just having a few too many. If he brings it up again when he's sober, I'd tell him exactly how I felt about having another one.
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  • fiona21408fiona21408

    imageIckyThump:
    Eh, at this point I'd chalk it up to him just having a few too many. If he brings it up again when he's sober, I'd tell him exactly how I felt about having another one.

    Ditto!

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  • HellsBelle08HellsBelle08

    Last time I got drunk, I thought it was a great idea to eat a bunch of White Castle! Our brains don't always work logically when you add some alcohol into the equation. Wink

    Bring it up while he's sober and see what he has to say! 

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  • RubypercyRubypercy

    On some level - no matter how great and helpful and involved a dad is - it's fine and all for him to get baby fever but it's the mom that has to do the bulk of the work! ?So you wait until (if) you are ready. ?:)

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    (That said DH and I had some serious baby fever this past late winter/early spring, but we have both cooled off for a bit). ?

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