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i'm feeling bummed too..

Nicolina08Nicolina08
in TTC After a Loss

I just found out that someone that had a m/c the week before me is now 5 months preg!!   I know I shoudl be happy for her.. and I actually am but I cant get over the fact that it is FIVE MONTHS!!  i havent even had anything close to a BFP..  and she is in her 2nd trimester!!!!!   As I am writing this I realize I sound like a little kid.. "waaah what about me?!"  but I cant help it. 

Am I an awful person!?!

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Re: i'm feeling bummed too..

  • itsMsAlbinitsMsAlbin member
    I'm sorry. ?I can imagine that would stink...many of the SAL ladies that are in their 3rd trimester were here when I started...I'm over the moon for them, but feeling left behind
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  • mistralmistral
    No, you're not an awful person.  You're human - you can be happy for her but sad for yourself.  Big hugs.
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  • redshoegirlredshoegirl member

    imagemistral:
    You're human - you can be happy for her but sad for yourself.

    I think this is what it comes down to. I have friends who are pregnant that I'm THRILLED for, but at the same time I'm sad for myself. It's natural. 

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  • lil_rhodylil_rhody member

    imagemistral:
    No, you're not an awful person.  You're human - you can be happy for her but sad for yourself.  Big hugs.

    This is so perfectly said.

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  • KateAndMarkKateAndMark
    You are not an awful person at all. It's hard to see people have what you want when you know you have been trying to do everything you can to get it and still fall short. Hang in there hun.
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  • WearingRedWearingRed member
    I know when I get my BFP I will not be telling anyone (outside this board and family) till month 3. Maybe She was just nervous to tell you. Other than that No your not a awful person and ::hugs::

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