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2nd Trimester
HerHighness
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Im pissy at dh!
HerHighness
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Im am so trying not to be mad.... but its really not working? Would this piss you off or am I just being hormonal?
Dh is leaving tomorrow for Fl. He is going to stay with his buddy who is in the AF for a week and then they are driving back up here so buddy can visit family. He'll get to go to the ocean and all that. I am very okay with him going and blowing off some steam. He needs it. We had to cancel our vacation this year because I was on bedrest (and out of work) for 6 weeks and it ate up our vacation fund.
but anyways. I had yesterday off. I got some of his favorite stuff to make him a big dinner so we could spend time together. He gets home from work and tells me he has to go help his dad get the boat ready and in the water. He wont be late. He gets home at 11. Im already annoyed because I had this wonderful evening planned for us together before he left. (I had to work tonight) He apologizes and tells me we can spend time together tonight after work. He will stay up late and sleep on the plane.He goes to bed.
So tonight I get home from work at 10. I was all excited to come be with him (ive barely seen him all week... we work opposite shifts) He;s not here. I call him and he's at his boss's playing poker. I know his boss often guilts him into playing.... but he could have said no this week. So now I sit here alone at 11:30 seething. He told me he'd be home at midnight. I have to take him to the airport at 8:30 am. He is not packed yet. I have a full day ahead of me tomorrow (I have many appts with the realtor in the morning and I have to work til 1am ) I need my sleep. I want to strangle him!!!
I dont want to pick a fight when he gets here as I wont see him for 10 days.... but Im so f"in mad!! Would you be pissed?
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Sarah, 35 bumping from NE Ohio
Married my love 4/22/2006
DD born 10/12/2009
DS born sleeping 2/23/2013 full trisomy 18
Baby 3 due 2/13/2015
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Sarah, 35 bumping from NE Ohio
Married my love 4/22/2006
DD born 10/12/2009
DS born sleeping 2/23/2013 full trisomy 18
Baby 3 due 2/13/2015
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Re: Im pissy at dh!
I'd be pissed too! But I'm super pissy with my DH too right now so I'm not a great judge. We are looking at houses too and he's been so absent minded and I'm stressed out. On top of this he promised to clean the bathroom weeks ago and it still isn't done. I tore down the shower curtain tonight which was disgusting and threw it near the trash. Aggressive, but it helped my anger. I hope your DH comes home from poker the time he says he is and steps up a little bit. Grrr!
Yup. That situation plus lack of sleep would make me very pissed.
I would suggest waiting for that conversation until he gets back from his trip. Focus on what you need from him. Stay solution oriented.
Oh man I would be ripped at him!
I suggest waiting it out though. You dont want him to leave on bad terms, just incase (thats how my mind works though).
I would however guilt the HELL out of him when he gets home.