1. Annoying - doesn't seem to be grateful for the "housekeeping" stuff I do, like making appointments for the sprinkler people to come out. He acts annoyed when I call him to confirm dates, etc. Sheesh.
2. He's very excited about BabyE coming. I mean, I'd sure hope so at this point, but he does say cute things about being eager to hold her and stuff.
I need to vent and also believe I need a reality check. Sooo, poll time!
1. What is annoying you about your DH/SO right now? Well before the weekend it was because he wouldn't do anything with the girls room's since we weren't sure if we were moving or not (still not sure)... but after the busy weekend we had and all he did, I can't say that. lol.
2. What makes you smile about him or her? Although I'm huge and PG, he tells me I'm beautiful.
1. What is annoying you about your DH/SO right now? I'm not mad that he doesn't have a job - that part doesn't bother me - however, the fact that he gets to just take off and go to baseball games and go on roadtrips while I'm pg, stuck at home and working just seems unfair.
2. What makes you smile about him or her? He makes me laugh all the damn time. We rib each other constantly and I love it. He keeps making random comments about being excited to be a father and it's really cute.
1. He's playing Mario Kart right now and it's bugging me. Especially since we have to get this house on the market if he takes the Louisville job. He'll likely stay at my parents' house during the week and I guess I'd like him to get more stuff done around here right now. He has done a lot, but it's never enough, you know? Also he eats loudly.
2. He and Jackson were reading a bit ago and both of them were laughing hysterically - he's a really good dad.
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1. ?That he's been going to the track on Saturdays, on top of me being home with L all day by myself for the week now were at 6 days AND he's coaching track so two nights a week he's gone until 8-10 pm!
2. ?That he's passionate about the things he loves!?
1. first, he works out of town M-Th, sometimes Fri, and when he is home the 2 days of the week, he barely does anything with me... he's OBESESSED with hunting and will spend hours in the woods or on the computer as he's trying to start up a small hunting related business. I have told him mulitple times the list of things that we need to get done before this baby comes and it's still not a priority to him... it's still hunting. Also since this is fresh, we went to register yesterday...He wanted to come even said he was excited about it... we get there and he doesn't give any opinions and acts all grumpy the ENTIRE time... I'd rather he not even come....grrrr.
2. He does do housework when he is home on the weekends such as dishes, vaccuming. Also I think he'll make a great father and I smile just imagining that.
BFP #2 11/4/12 EDD 7/20/12 missed M/C 12/13/12 @8w5d D&C 12/21/12
DX 2/7/13 with an alloimmunity + for anti-paternal antibodies started Lovenox daily & BA
BFP 2/16/13 EDD 10/28/13
1. That I picked up the house while he was gone this weekend and I know as soon as he gets home and starts working on the house again all of his stuff will find its way to misc spots that it doesn't belong and his laundry will not find its way to the hamper.
2. That he has a huge heart and will do anything for anyone, he loves to help people even if it means sacrificing his time etc.
1. What is annoying you about your DH/SO right now? This is coming out more with baby decisions...He's just a pretty passive guy in general and I wish he'd have more opinions...that being said, I pretty much always get what I want and he is usually perfectly satisfied with whatever I chose. If he didn't have an opinion and then b!tched about what I chose, that'd be a different story. I just get tired of being the one who does all the research.
2. What makes you smile about him or her? I think he is going to be a great dad. I love how he interactss with Boomer (I know it's different but it's all I can compare it to for now) and I know that LewWho is going to be such a daddy's girl.
1. That he never lets go of anything. He's a grudge holder for sure... Oh. and he leaves his socks on the floor where ever he is sitting. P*SSES.ME.OFF!
2. I love that he is willing to take over the domestic roles in our household. He cooks because he knows how much I hate it and he actually enjoys it and is good at it. And he helps me clean regularly. It makes me happy that he wants to be a stay at home dad. And I love the fact that he adores me and tells me about it on a regular basis. I don't like being the center of attention or having people "take notice" of me, in fact, it's probably my least favorite thing in the world. But to have my husband let me know how much he loves me and tell me how great he thinks I am is pretty awesome.
1. He never tells me that I look pretty/am beautiful unless I ask him directly. I could really use it now days. And I know I should tell him but then it's like i just told myself. Blah.
2. pretty much everything else about him is perfect.
Oh, and Beth, T.J. swallows really loudly. So.freaking.annoying.
Jen & T.J. 6.17.06 BabyBlog * my chart *
Joseph Henry was born at home on March 9, 2009
Nora Mae was born at home on October 30, 2011
Re: Husband/SO poll
1. Annoying - doesn't seem to be grateful for the "housekeeping" stuff I do, like making appointments for the sprinkler people to come out. He acts annoyed when I call him to confirm dates, etc. Sheesh.
2. He's very excited about BabyE coming. I mean, I'd sure hope so at this point, but he does say cute things about being eager to hold her and stuff.
1. What is annoying you about your DH/SO right now?
I'm not mad that he doesn't have a job - that part doesn't bother me - however, the fact that he gets to just take off and go to baseball games and go on roadtrips while I'm pg, stuck at home and working just seems unfair.
2. What makes you smile about him or her?
He makes me laugh all the damn time. We rib each other constantly and I love it. He keeps making random comments about being excited to be a father and it's really cute.
1. He's playing Mario Kart right now and it's bugging me. Especially since we have to get this house on the market if he takes the Louisville job. He'll likely stay at my parents' house during the week and I guess I'd like him to get more stuff done around here right now. He has done a lot, but it's never enough, you know? Also he eats loudly.
2. He and Jackson were reading a bit ago and both of them were laughing hysterically - he's a really good dad.
1. ?That he's been going to the track on Saturdays, on top of me being home with L all day by myself for the week now were at 6 days AND he's coaching track so two nights a week he's gone until 8-10 pm!
2. ?That he's passionate about the things he loves!?
It annoys me that... Ummm... I can't thnk of anything right now. I'm sorry
2. What makes you smile about him or her?
He's just Abe. He's the biggest sweetie combined with the most practical person I've ever known.
1. first, he works out of town M-Th, sometimes Fri, and when he is home the 2 days of the week, he barely does anything with me... he's OBESESSED with hunting and will spend hours in the woods or on the computer as he's trying to start up a small hunting related business. I have told him mulitple times the list of things that we need to get done before this baby comes and it's still not a priority to him... it's still hunting. Also since this is fresh, we went to register yesterday...He wanted to come even said he was excited about it... we get there and he doesn't give any opinions and acts all grumpy the ENTIRE time... I'd rather he not even come....grrrr.
2. He does do housework when he is home on the weekends such as dishes, vaccuming. Also I think he'll make a great father and I smile just imagining that.
BFP #2 11/4/12 EDD 7/20/12 missed M/C 12/13/12 @8w5d D&C 12/21/12
DX 2/7/13 with an alloimmunity + for anti-paternal antibodies started Lovenox daily & BA
BFP 2/16/13 EDD 10/28/13
1. That I picked up the house while he was gone this weekend and I know as soon as he gets home and starts working on the house again all of his stuff will find its way to misc spots that it doesn't belong and his laundry will not find its way to the hamper.
2. That he has a huge heart and will do anything for anyone, he loves to help people even if it means sacrificing his time etc.
1. What is annoying you about your DH/SO right now? This is coming out more with baby decisions...He's just a pretty passive guy in general and I wish he'd have more opinions...that being said, I pretty much always get what I want and he is usually perfectly satisfied with whatever I chose. If he didn't have an opinion and then b!tched about what I chose, that'd be a different story. I just get tired of being the one who does all the research.
2. What makes you smile about him or her? I think he is going to be a great dad. I love how he interactss with Boomer (I know it's different but it's all I can compare it to for now) and I know that LewWho is going to be such a daddy's girl.
1. Nothing really - well maybe that he won't wake up in the middle of the night easier, but, he can't help it!
2. He's so helpful and does so much without having to be asked :-)
1. That he never lets go of anything. He's a grudge holder for sure... Oh. and he leaves his socks on the floor where ever he is sitting. P*SSES.ME.OFF!
2. I love that he is willing to take over the domestic roles in our household. He cooks because he knows how much I hate it and he actually enjoys it and is good at it. And he helps me clean regularly. It makes me happy that he wants to be a stay at home dad.
And I love the fact that he adores me and tells me about it on a regular basis. I don't like being the center of attention or having people "take notice" of me, in fact, it's probably my least favorite thing in the world. But to have my husband let me know how much he loves me and tell me how great he thinks I am is pretty awesome.
1. He never tells me that I look pretty/am beautiful unless I ask him directly. I could really use it now days. And I know I should tell him but then it's like i just told myself. Blah.
2. pretty much everything else about him is perfect.
Oh, and Beth, T.J. swallows really loudly. So.freaking.annoying.
Joseph Henry was born at home on March 9, 2009
Nora Mae was born at home on October 30, 2011