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Need hope (SAIFW)

jennafee77jennafee77
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I just got back for RE for b/w and found out that we did not have any embryo's to freeze.  I am completely devestated.  When we went in on Friday for ET (4dt) we had 6 possible to freeze.  They will only freeze at blast.  So all weekend I waited for a call and got nothing.  This morning they tell me that 2 made it to blast but were not good enough quality to freeze.  I cried right there in the office cause I was so hopeful to have at least 2 frozen.

Now I feel like the ones that they transferred will have the same problems and not be good enough to implant.  Has anyone had no embies to freeze but was able to get pg?  TIA for your help

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Re: Need hope (SAIFW)

  • MBandBudMBandBud member
    While I don't have any direct experience, I would not judge the quality of the ones that were transfered on the other ones. ?I am sure they took the best quality ones. ?Also, just because one doesn't make it to freeze doesn't mean it wouldn't survive in that nice warm womb of yours. ?Hold onto hope girl!
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  • caityrcaityr
    Post on SAIF. I know for a fact several ladies there have 0 frosties but are KU.
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  • howleyshellhowleyshell member

    I know it's almost impossible not to think the way you are but PLEASE remember that they chose the BEST embies to put back in and left those not doing as well to see if they'd go to blast.

    The uterus is the BEST incubator for those embies, not a petri dish.

    Please try to focus on the fact that you've got the BEST ones in you and the ones that didn't make it in the dish were not as strong as the ones inside you to begin with.

    Also - I know it sounds trite because IVF seems to always turn into a numbers game but try to remember that you're looking for that one golden egg. ?

    I'm praying like mad that it's inside you know and settling in for a nice happy and healthy 9 months.

    ((((HUGS)))

    **** unsolicited advice warning ****

    try to stay as busy as possible until you can POAS. ?This will be the toughest (not quite) 2 ww of your life. ?Plan lunches, movies, read books, etc. ?Anything to keep your mind off it as much as possible!

    GL to you!

    Shell?

    ?

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
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