Are you really happy in your marriage?

KKM · May 2009

Are you? Do you truely feel like dh is who you were meant for, and that you are sole mates? I know almost everyone loves their dh, but are you convinced that you could not be happier with anyone else?

ameliasmom · May 2009

I am truly happy.

I feel that DH and I were meant for each other.

ohwhattheheck · May 2009

no. I love him very much and I know he is such a great person and that I'm lucky to have him but I think there is probably someone out there better suited for me.

This is the first time I've admitted that to anyone but myself.

*blondiem* · May 2009

I know I could not be happier with anyone else.

He is my soulmate. )

Linds&Chris777 · May 2009

Definately yes. We have both been divorced so we learned the hard way, which has helped us with our relationship. There is really nothing that I would change about our relationship. We are both very happy with eachother.

Amy Schramm · May 2009

Absolutely. I feel that we are soulmates and a great match. I love him more now than the day I married him. I don't think I'd be as happy with anyone else.

I only wish he worked less-- because I love hanging out with him so much.

spunkymunky · May 2009

I couldn't imagine my life with anyone else. He is perfect for me

lisaroo · May 2009

I can honestly say yes to all of this. I think my husband is the most amazing person I have ever met and I can't believe he settled for me

He is handsome, considerate, patient, sweet, and a great dad. I truly believe that there is no one else who could fit so well with me and still put up with some of my crap. I know that I am very lucky.

punkfiction · May 2009

completely. i think we are the perfect match for each other. we have had a lot of surprises in the 3.5 years we have been together, but never have i ever thought anything but great things about it all. he is my best friend, the person id rather hang out with out of anyone i know, he loves me for me, we are open with each other, trust each other, and i can't imagine a life with anyone else that would make me this happy. plus, he is the other 1/2 to some good looking kids

i had had serious relationships before dh that i felt the way you are talking about - but thats one of the reasons that i knew this was different.

olivejuice127 · May 2009

I am... my husband and I are the exact same person. Which is amazing and awful at the same time. He keeps me on my toes because we are both so stubborn, and yes we do argue and we do fight, but when we're on...we're on. I cant picture myself with anyone else.

lifeasmommy · May 2009

I will be honest

I LOVE my husband but I wish he would help out more with the house and the baby and sometimes that makes me resent him and I have talked to him about it but some people are set in their ways -- aside from that he's my true blue LOL!

megwitt · May 2009

Now its getting exciting!!!!

To be honest I questioned this alot in the first year of marriage. DH and I have been together forever (about 11 years off and on) and I wondered if we got married b/c we were comfortable! We had alot of problems in that first year (to much to go into here) but once we worked through everything and went to lots of counseling and since our son was born, I can honestly say that there is NO one else I would want to be with or have a child with. Dont get me wrong there are times I want to kill him, but he is truly my best friend and I wouldnt know what to do with out him

14years · May 2009

I am really happy and could not be happier with anyone else. I thank my lucky stars for this.

(But I've known DH for over 20 years now, since middle school, and we dated in high school and college, broke up and reconnected in our 30s. It's a fairly unusual situation.)

nicoleRI · May 2009

I am...the question for me is dh happy? hence the counseling on Monday...

why do you ask?

And weird, today I found out my bff's dh is totally talking to an ex that he shouldn't be talking to- and he is lying about it and my other friend just got her court date for her divorce- today my DH is actually looking really good in the h department.

Judah'sMommy · May 2009

I really am truly happy. There's no one else for me. DH and I joke sometimes that if we got a divorce we feel sorry for whoever ends up with us b/c we'll always be hot for each other. Embarrassed

KKM · May 2009

I love my dh, and I truly am happy but I wonder if I could be happier with someone else. I am not convinced he is my soul mate

Sherriberry · May 2009

Yes! I knew I was going to marry DH the first time I saw him in high school math class. We're going on 10 years in a couple weeks and I can truly say he's my soulmate.

jade_sweatpea · May 2009

I'm sure nobody would get on here and say no.

KittenGator · May 2009

Tee hee at "sole" mates )

I do think so. We're not without problems but we're right for each other. We love each other a lot and we're both very happy.?

ali-1411 · May 2009

Neither DH and I believe in soul mates, but we love each other and we're dedicated to making the best of our marriage and our lives. In some ways we are perfect for each other, and in other ways we don't make any sense as a couple.

Janimal · May 2009

I said no to other men's proposals before DH. I waited for the right guy and got married later at 32. I feel very confident saying he's the one. Very.

kayleebugs · May 2009

No...I think i cry myself to sleep enough to know that. I love my DH - and i think that i love him to much to give up hope....

BabyCakes3 · May 2009

I am truly happy in my marriage. We've been through so much together & I truly feel he is my soul mate. I am so lucky to have found him!

mabst196 · May 2009

olivejuice127:
I am... my husband and I are the exact same person. Which is amazing and awful at the same time. He keeps me on my toes because we are both so stubborn, and yes we do argue and we do fight, but when we're on...we're on. I cant picture myself with anyone else.

This desribes my DH and I as well. We have some different interests, but our personalities are exactly alike.

kgrl21 · May 2009

Since I don't believe there is one perfect person for you, I could probably be just as happy with someone else. That being said I am extremely happy in my marriage. I love DH more now than I did before and I can't see us ever divorcing or anything like that. For me, he is perfect. Also it doesn't hurt that our sex life is beyond awesome. Wink

monkey520 · May 2009

YES - 110%

Big Smile

HellsBelle08 · May 2009

My DH is my best friend and I would spend 24 hours a day w/him if I could! I am truly happy w/him.

ohwhattheheck · May 2009

jade_sweatpea:
I'm sure nobody would get on here and say no.

ohwhattheheck · May 2009

jade_sweatpea:
I'm sure nobody would get on here and say no.

did you see my post?

Brit&Nate · May 2009

No BS, I cannot imagine being happier. I often feel bad for other people thinking that they might never know the kind of happiness we have.

wareto · May 2009

Yes, I think we're a perfect match, and have no doubts that I couldn't be happier with anyone else. I was married before, so I feel like that helps me really *know* just how perfect DH and I are for eachother.

Echowysp · May 2009

I am happy with my marriage. There are things about dh that I find annoying, but I'm sure I'd find that with anyone.

chrisnj0614 · May 2009

Yes. I am truly happy and feel that he is the perfect person for me. He is my soulmate. he is my best friend.

I lived with someone prior to meeting my DH. When I left my ex, I knew what I wanted and didn't want. DH was and is everything I wanted. Being with my ex also makes me better at my relationship.

fauxbunny · May 2009

Eh.

And it's soul mates, hehe.

My husband is only a really good husband and dad when he's working. When he's on his ass at home, he's crabby and angry at the world. Since he has no friends (nor do I, but I care much less about it than he does) he doesn't have anyone to vent to but me. It's very VERY trying.

He just finally got a new job this Monday, and already he's back to his happy self, but if something goes wrong and the business gets shut down like his last job? I might just have to hang myself.

There is only one other person on the planet I would even consider leaving him for though. He's already in love with my son too. My husband better watch himself!

DaisyAdair · May 2009

Nope.

I don't love him. I don't like him. I basically feel nothing other than a strong desire to be away from him.

I could definitely be happy(ier) with someone else. There are many wonderful people out in the world.

Amrice78 · May 2009

KKM:

Are you? Do you truely feel like dh is who you were meant for, and that you are sole mates? I know almost everyone loves their dh, but are you convinced that you could not be happier with anyone else?

I am truly happy. I don't think we're sole mates, but we are soul mates Wink

lifeasmommy · May 2009

I agree with the girl who said that no one would say NO

I can't say that I wouldn't be happier with anyone else because who really knows that because if some man came along and was mr. mom I might be happier with him but I DO KNOW I'm not willing to try and find out because I'm happy with who he is

Karen_77 · May 2009

Absolutely yes. I would be one of those crazy widows that wears a black all the time and never dates again- that's only half true. But my heart would literally break I think if something ever happened to DH.

jen_k2 · May 2009

There is no one I would rather be w/for the rest of my life. He may be a PITA sometimes, but he is my wonderful PITA.

GoodOman9206 · May 2009

Without a doubt I love my DH and think we work very welll together as a couple and as parents. However there has always been a part of me that thinks I could be happier with someone else and that maybe he is not my soulmate. It sucks to admit but it's the truth.

nextmrsfrey · May 2009

Of course there are up and downs but yes I am truly happy. DH is who I was meant to marry and he has stuck by my side through thick and thin. He continues to surprise me daily. My parents are divorced and he has made marriage a very enjoyable experience.

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