Babies: 9 - 12 Months

my life couldn't get any worse

i have a paragard.

i am 4 days late.

i just took a digital.

30 seconds--Pregnant.  clear as day.

i am shaking and on hold with the dr's office.

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  • holy crap BW i am so sorry.  I know that this is not something you were wanting.  GL to you and big fat hugs
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  • holy shat! congrats? or... no?
  • Congratulations.  If you are, it will work out.
  • why bad?  not ready?  $ ? 
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  • this is probably stupid but what is a paragard?
  • NM I just googled it.  It will work out! Hang in there.
  • imagepunkfiction:
    holy shat! congrats? or... no?

    NO.

    i wanted one & done.  mypregnancy & delivery were a mess. 

  • seriously??

    I really hope it all works out for you.

    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
  • Oh my gosh. I am sorry, I know this must be unbelievably stressful. It's going to be ok. Have you talked to your husband yet?
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  • holy crap! I hope everything turns out ok!

    I was contemplating paragaurd...now I am not so sure about it after reading that! I'm sure it doesn't happen often though...but it is probably something that would happen to me too!

  • Oh man BW *hugs*
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    imagepunkfiction:
    holy shat! congrats? or... no?

    NO.

    i wanted one & done.  mypregnancy & delivery were a mess. 

    well, i hope that this one is better for you. don't think that this one will be bad bc the first one was. all pregnancies/deliveries can be different. good luck and let it sink in... everything will work out.

  • i just talked to my dr.  i have an hcg test at 10 am on monday.  he said we will figure it out.  he told me it was still really early, but when i told him it was a digital he was like, "oh."

    i don't know what to do. H's phone is off because he is playing golf.  i am bawling.  DS just wants to play.  i can't call my family.  i don't want anymore kids.

  • awww honey, i'm sorry this is not what you want. 

    on the plus side, i'm sure you are an absolutely fantastic mother and as bad as it seems now, things always have a way of working themselves out...

    ((hugs))

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    Oh honey it will all be ok. I'm sorry, I know this isn't what you wanted.
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  • Oh wow BW.  (((Big huge hugs)))  You know I'm here if you need to talk. 
  • Breathe.  It's not unusual for IUDs to mess with your cycle. There are such things as chemical pregnancies and false positives.

    No matter what happens you'll make it work. 

    Give your doctor a call and make an appointment asap.

    ((( hugs )))

    ETA:  Sorry I didn't read your follow up about already having called your doc.  ((( more hugs ))) It'll be okay.  You have time to catch your breath, talk to over with your H and your doc, breathe, and decide how you would like to handle this.

  • Holy crap BW ... I don't know the whole back story of your PG/delivery ... but good luck hon.

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  • Deep breath. We're here for you. I'm sorry.
  • Gee BW Im sorry this isn't what you want. 

    Oy.  I have Mirena and this is my biggest fear....

    Can they take it out with out aborting the pregnancy? 

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  • imagebrandonsfuturewife07:

    imagepunkfiction:
    holy shat! congrats? or... no?

    NO.

    i wanted one & done.  mypregnancy & delivery were a mess. 

    Oh no!  I would be freaking out too if this happened.  Do whatever you can to make life easier on yourself.  Maybe, having gone through a difficult pregnancy the first time, you will be prepared for it & it will be better this time.

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  • Wow.  Right Hug 

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    I'm sorry. 

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  • My aunt had this - they left it in. The pregnancy developed around it and it moved out of the way. Her pregnancy went to term.
  • It will be OK hun. ?((hugs))
  • it will be ok ((hugs))
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  • are you serious?  holy SH!T! 

    ETA:  so sorry BW - i know it doesn't feel like it right now, but it will be OK.  

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  • oy! That's a doozy! I'd be right there with ya if it was me. It will work out though and I'm sure you'll feel better after to talk to H. GL!

    BIG OL ((E-HUG))!

  • I am so sorry. I can understand your feelings. I would feel the same way if I were in this situation.?
  • I'm sorry.  That really sucks. :( good luck
  • Oh no! I'll be thinking about you, and hope everything works out for you! This is my worst fear with the IUD. Try to stay calm. Good luck hon. Keep us updated.
  • I am sorry, I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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  • Oh no! I can't imagine how upset you are! It'll work out though and you'll have another beautiful child to love. Not to be morbid or anything, but aren't the odds of having a miscarriage a lot higher if you get pregnant while having an IUD?

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    I'm sorry this isn't what you expected/planned. You have said before that you trust God...while this is probably a very difficult time, that's usually when we really need to trust him. This will all work out. I promise. I have tears in my eyes because I think this may have been how my mom reacted when she found out she was pregnant with me...not that she was wrong or that you are..I just feel bad for her and you. It's supposed to be a happy occasion, you know..but that just isn't always the case.

    I will definitely keep you in prayer. Update us on what the doctor says and all. ((HUGS))

  • Oh my God.  I am so sorry.  This is my own worst fear.

    You're in my thoughts.

  • hang in there, BW.  my thoughts are with you!
  • imagebrandonsfuturewife07:

    imagepunkfiction:
    holy shat! congrats? or... no?

    NO.

    i wanted one & done.  mypregnancy & delivery were a mess. 

    Don't worry, each pregnancy and delivery is different. My pregnancies were pretty similar, but my deliveries couldn't have been more different. First I had an emergency c-section after I didn't dilate past 7 cm, and 18 hours of labor! This last time the whole labor and delivery lasted 7 hours from start to finish and I had a vbac. 

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