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Talk me off this FWP ledge!

ashleyb0604ashleyb0604
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We started to m/c on 4/9 and for the past two days I have had rockin' EWCM and it just makes me want to FWP so bad! I was resigned to waiting a cycle before, but now that I see my body getting and feeling back to normal with signs of O, I just really want to try. I had a natural m/c and things progressed quickly with my body going back to normal within a week (hormone levels down and ute cleared itself). This is probably not remarkable, but I was expecting it to take much longer. I know I need to listen to my doctor and wait one cycle, but it's just so hard when all we want to do is get pg again as quickly as possible!

Thanks for letting me throw a hissy fit.

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Re: Talk me off this FWP ledge!

  • Leah&ColeLeah&Cole member

    I know exactly how you feel... I would go through spells of wanting to try in that first "cycle".  My DH always reminded me that if I did get pg and then something happened, I would never forgive myself.

    Good luck with whatever you decide.

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  • Anna&MattAnna&Matt member
    Maybe this will help - we weren't trying, ?had an oops, got pg before AF ever showed and it wound up being a CP.?
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  • ibisibis member

    I had EWCM after my m/c too, and it was hard to resist. I just knew that I would panic & freak out if I couldn't date my pregnancy, so I managed to wait.

    GL 

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  • ashleyb0604ashleyb0604
    imageLeah&Cole:

    I know exactly how you feel... I would go through spells of wanting to try in that first "cycle".  My DH always reminded me that if I did get pg and then something happened, I would never forgive myself.

    Good luck with whatever you decide.

    Yes! That's my big hold-out...the "what if" and then I would completely blame myself.
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  • Cow-girlCow-girl member
    Dont do it...  I got pg my first cycle after D&C and lost my baby Grace at 18 wks to an infection that could have been there from conception.  It is very rare to get the infection but please wait and dont put yourself out there to go through what I did.
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