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Introducing...... (more photos added on page 2)

Our new son, Holden. Sorry for the radio silence. We have been at the hospital since 6am. Just left for a bit to freshen up and will head back in a bit to say goodnight to him and the BM. All papers are signed and he is officially ours. (well, as official as can be until finalization is done.)

Everything went absolutely perfect today. We can't believe that after everything, we had such a perfect adoption and SON! We are still in shock. We have lots of better pics but haven't had time to upload the stuff from today. This picture was about 30 minutes after birth.

We had a wonderful and emotional day today. Spent all day with our son and with the BM. She helped teach me how to do everything and it was just amazing. I spent probably half of the day crying. Every emotion from the past year came out all at once.

He will be discharged tomorrow morning and we will bring him back to the hotel and start waiting on ICPC. ?I'm so excited to bring him home because this has been very bittersweet. As happy as we are to be parents, I'm also grieving with the BM and I'm ready to just enjoy being mommy.

I can honestly say that two months ago, we came so close to giving up. I had completely lost faith in the adoption system. I'm amazed at what can happen when we decided to completely surrender and just have faith. We were blessed with an absolutely amazing agency and found the perfect BM for us. I can't believe. I'm delirious and in shock.

Thanks for all the comments and posts! ?

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Re: Introducing...... (more photos added on page 2)

  • He is absolutely adorable!! I like his name! Congratulations Mom and Dad!!!
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  • What a beautiful boy!  Congratulations, and may the time until finalization pass quickly for you.
  • What a head of hair! He's gonna be a such a heart throb! Congratulations to you and your DH. What is meant to be, will be. And this was it.

    I am so glad that today went well! Thanks for posting, I just kept thinking about it today. Good stories are uplifting!

     

  • Wow, look at all that hair!

    Congrats, and hope to see you on the monther boards. :)

  • Oh my gosh, he has so much hair. All the nurses keep coming by to play with it. No one told me they have hair on their face. I was so confused when he came out and I saw that!?
  • Congratulation!  He's adorable!
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    Oh my gosh, he has so much hair. All the nurses keep coming by to play with it. No one told me they have hair on their face. I was so confused when he came out and I saw that!

    It goes away pretty quickly. Don't worry, he won't turn into a werewolf. ;)

  • He's gorgeous! Love the name :). And look at all that hair!?

    I am so thrilled for you guys! ?

  • OMG. He is BEAUTIFUL!!! You just made me cry. I am so happy for you. You have a super handsome son.

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  • Holden is beautiful.  I'm so glad everything went smoothly.  I know what you mean about giving up.  We were in the same situation, but decided to tough it out, and we were so lucky to have found Ben.

    I can't wait to see more pictures.  I know you are looking forward to showing him off to family and friends, and the hotel might seem like a bummer, but enjoy the time with just you, DH,and Holden.  I know we bonded incredibly with Ben since it was just us for 10 days.

    Have fun! 

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  • He's beautiful! Congratulations. I am so happy for you.
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  • he is beautiful - congrats
  • I'm all veklempt. He's beautiful. And Holden is an excellent name. Congratulations!
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  • How wonderful!  I am so happy for you!
  • He's perfect.  Congratulations!!!
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  • He is so beautiful!!! Congrats a hundred times! I got chills reading this!!!! I <3 the name, Holden, too! ( There is a soap opera character on As The World Turns named Holden and I always thought that was a cool name, and he is a VERY handsome guy :)    Good Luck!!
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  • Oh my God!!! Your son is just so very beautiful. Congratulations !!!!
  • wow he is beautiful!!!! makes me miss my son as a newborn!!! Congrats a million times over! mommy hood is wonderful!!!
    Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • He is perfect! I am so very happy for you. Your post made my whole day!
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  • He is a beautiful baby and I love, love, love his name!!  Congrats!!!!! Party!!!
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  • He's absolutely beautiful!!!  And I just adore his name.  Congratulations and I am so excited for you and your journey into motherhood!!!
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  • Holden is too perfect--congratulations!
  • Oh my gosh, he is so very precious!  I am so thrilled for you!!
  • JUST WONDERFUL NEWS!  CONGRATS!!!!!:):)

    After 7 years of marriage and 5 unsuccessful IVFs, we have been granted the gift of adopting a baby boy, born 4/21/11.
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  • Woo-hoo! Welcome, Holden!  Beautiful name, beautiful story, beautiful boy.  Congratulations!
    *TTC since February 08* 2 IUIs that didn't take, exploratory LAP and hysterscopy in September 2010 that revealed nothing, means we're adopting! Preliminary paper work to agency & started home study in 11/10 Profiles to agency on 1/12/11 - Officially waiting! First home study visit scheduled for 1/29/11 Matched (Eek!) on 1/24/11 *Sweet baby boy born on 1/26/11* Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • He's just beautiful -- congratulations new mommy!
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  • Wow, I have to admit that I was just lurking over here and was not planning to post at all, but that is such a BEAUTIFUL BABY, I just had to say congratulations!!  I can't imagine all the emotions you are having, but it sounds like in the end your story is just perfect with your new son.  Congratulations, mommy!!! 
  • Congratulations Mom!  He is so handsome.  Please keep us posted and share more pictures when you can.  You have just given many of us hope!

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  • He's perfect! Congratulations!
  • He is beautiful! ?Congratulations!
  • What a blessing. Congratulations!!
  • I have to say, I am a lurker over here, but I must have checked for an update at least three dozen times this afternoon, just hoping and praying that things would go well for you all.  My heart melted before I even opened up your post.  Holden is simply perfect and I adore the name - congratulations!  I hope the rest of your journey goes well and you can bring the little one home to meet your family soon.

     

  • Love the hair!  So glad all went well.  Have a safe journey home and a beautiful start to motherhood!
  • He is so precious!
  • He is so cute, I love the tongue picture. Super cute.
  • He is just gorgeous!! I am so super happy for you! Enjoy him.
  • Congrats on the birth of your perfect and healthy baby boy! He's precious.
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