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XP from 3rd tri/ The worst night of my life.

Ladies I don't post much, but I am on here all the time. I am just really reaching out for support from anyone that can help me get through this. I have already had some great replies. My DH took his own life last night with my DD in the house. I found them when I got off work. I have been through the night from hell and I hoped I would wake up to find out it was just a bad dream. However, it isn't and it is in the paper already. I just really need some good thoughts and prayers for our entire family and my precious babies, one of whom will never see his father's face. Here is the article if anyone is interested Officials: Officer Took His Own Life | theledger.com | The Ledger | Lakeland, FL
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Re: XP from 3rd tri/ The worst night of my life.

  • Oh my God, I'm so sorry!  Please, please, please, take care of yourself and your little ones and let us know if there is anything we can do for you.  I'll be thinking of you and and your family.

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  • I am so, so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in our prayers.
  • OMG! I am so so sorry for your family.  My prayers will be with you
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Ditto PP.  Please take care of yourself and let us know if there is anything we can do.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers.
  • I am so sorry.  Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
  • OMG, I am so very sorry. ?I know those words don't make anything any better, but I cannot find any other words. ?I am from Winter Haven and when I saw the link my heart just dropped. ?I just don't even know what to say and I cannot imagine the horror you are going through right now. ?You and your family will be in my prayers. ?Please reach out for help and take care of yourself and your DD.
  • OMG, I'm just speechless.  I am so very sorry.  Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Many many prayers being sent your way. Please take care of yourself and your precious little girls. If you ever need to talk pm me I am here. My husband is a law enforcement officer and it seems to happen too often. It is one of my biggest fears. I am thinking of you and your family!!!! Again many prayers of strength and peace for you!
  • I am so sorry for your loss.
  • I am so sorry
  • I am so sorry for your loss.   My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss and for what you are going throught right now. ?Please take care of yourself and your DD. ?I will keep you and your family in my thoughts. ?Please know that we are all here to support you. ?
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  • I'm so terribly sorry. ?Your family is in my prayers. ?
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  • How awful...  Prayers for you and your children....
  • I'm so incredibly sorry.  Please take care of yourself and keep us updated on how you're doing ... and let us know if you need anything.  I'll be praying for you and your children. 
  • How awful I am so sorry. You and your babies will be in my prayers. Take care of yourself.?
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  • Many prayers are being said for you and your two children.  I can't imagine the heartache you're suffering and will suffer.  I pray for your strength, although I know you will be strong...for your babies.  God Bless you.
  • oh no I"m so very very sorry!!! how awful!! my thoughts are with you and your family.
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  • I'm so sorry :(
  • Oh my! I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family! Take care of you!
  • That is absolutly horrific.  I am so very sorry for your loss and for your daughter.  I hope you can find strength & serenity to help you through this incredibly difficult time.  I'll be thinking of you.
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  • Oh my gosh, I have no words. I am so incredibly sorry. My heart goes out to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers and my hope for you is that you find a safe and secure emotional place to grieve. So sorry you are going through this horrific tragedy. Hug your children and take it one step at a time.
  • OMG.  I am so, so sorry.  You and your entire family are in my prayers.
  • There are no words, I am so sorry for your loss and you childrens' loss.
  • i'm so sorry for your horrible loss.  Be strong for your little one.
  • I am struggling to find the right words to say.  I am so very sorry and will be saying prayers for you and your family as you work through putting the pieces of your life back together.
  • You and your family will be in my prayers. To echo everyone else, please take care of yourself. I'm so, so sorry for your loss.
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  • I wish there was something I could do for you. I am so sorry. Please take care of yourself and your children.
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  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family :(
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  • Oh no.  I can't even imagine what you must be feeling.  I am so sorry for you and your family.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your little ones in my thoughts and prayers for healing from this tragedy in your lives.
  • Oh my god, I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • Oh my goodness, I am so very sorry for your loss and this tragedy.  My heart goes out to you and your family.
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  • I truly do not know what to say.  I am just so, so sorry.  You and your little ones are in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope you can find the support and healing you need at this time.  Please let us know if we can do anything to help.
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss. Please make sure that you (and your DD) get some grief counseling...I believe you can still use the police department's resources if you need to.
  • Suicide is such a horrible factor to deal with when it comes to someone's death. It's NOT your fault, you (nor your daughter) caused it, and there's nothing you could have done. I'm sure he was a wonderful man, and I'm sorry you and your family have to go through this.

    It's just not fair.

     

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  • I am so sorry to hear this. I heard about this on another board, and just wanted to let u know that I live in Lakeland.  IF you need anything AT ALL< even just someone to talk too, please feel free to email me.  I am at kmuller611 at hotmail dot com
  • Wow, I am just so so sorry for your loss and all you and your family will have to endure. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your babies.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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