We Interrupt Our Previously Scheduled Bad Day.... — The Bump
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We Interrupt Our Previously Scheduled Bad Day....

to bring you a box of pg clothes sitting on your doorstep when you get home.

I can't win.  And now I'm debating... send them back?  Hope for success?  Burn them in the backyard and roast some weiners?

arg. arg. arg.

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Re: We Interrupt Our Previously Scheduled Bad Day....

  • I vote that you toss them in the fire pit, make some 'smores and enjoy a nice glass of wine :)
  • If it were me, I'd keep them. I'm not superstitious and they WILL come in handy someday.
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  • Keep them fo sho!Stick out tongue  But maybe in an attic or basement or under a bed!

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  • I vote keep them, but hide them. That's what I did.
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    I vote keep them, but hide them. That's what I did.

    Yes- hide them!  I had my husband hide all my books and stuff and it worked great!..... until I found them, but it took a few months to find them.  You'll be needing them soon, so tell him not to hide them too hard.

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  • Ughh! It seems like you can't catch a break today. Quick, go sit on the couch and relax, grab a book and have some ice cream.

    I also agree with keeping them and maybe having DH hide them, or keep them at a relatives house. It will be nice to open the box in the future (hopefully sometime soon Wink ) I am sorry you are having a bad day, I hope tommorrow will be much better for you.


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  • I say keep them and put them into a box in the basement. A few days after I found out my friend came over and help me pack all my things books, clothes, some bibs I had gotten at christmas, etc into a container and then we place them in the basement in a room I don't go in too often. I figured I will stay positive and know I will be needing them soon. Jen
  • Oh goodness,it just seems like you cant get a break today...  Keep them for sure.  I like the pp idea of having your DH hide them..  You will be needing them!  you should relax tonight, and prepare for a good day tomorrow!

    Two weeks before I lost our baby I went to my SIL's house to get a bunch of maternity clothes (stuff I had given her after my last pg), spent days washing it all, hanging it up in the closet, only to have to turn around and re-pack it all.  I think the boxes are haunting me, they are sitting in my living room laughing at me everytime I walk by..   Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

    I am a married mom of 3 beautiful earthly DD's ages 15 yrs, 6 yrs and 11 months. I am the mom of 5 angel babies (CP, 7 wks, 8 wks, 18 wks, and 14 wks losses)

  • I ordered several items less than a week before our m/c and I ended up sending them back.  Most of them were very summery clothes and I knew I probably would not be wearing them this summer. 

    If they are not very seasonal, I'd keep them, but hide them like the pp said.  I also had my DH put away all of my books, gifts, clothes, etc.. I know they are in our office and I can't hide the gigantic Graco Safe Seat staring at me every time I walk up the stairs that my mom sent us the week before.  We're keeping it and have hope we'll need it very soon.

  • Save them! You WILL need them soon!

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