I was at daycare yesterday picking Eli up, and one of the other moms from his class was coming out at the same time and we were talking (we're semi-close). We got to my car first, and I opened the door to put him in, and she said "oh, you're such a good mom for keeping him RF". It made me smile. She has done the research, but turned her DD at 1 year, which is totally none of my beeswax. We get along really well and have similar parenting styles, so it made me feel good to get the positve comment from her. Especially when so many people look at you crazy most of the time.