What are your kids going to call their grandparents? Anyone calling both sides grandma and grandpa? I think that is what we are going to do, but I think that might be confusing for DD. But I feel like we can't tell either side that they have to have a different name, they will get upset....When I was growing up we used different names, but my dad's parents, who we were closer to, were grandma and grandpa. We are closer to my parents, but I can't see DH telling his parents they have to pick a different name...And they are already grandma and grandpa to SIL's son...
Re: Names for grandparents?
My parents want to be called Nonna and Papa.
DH's parents are up for whatever at this point.
I refer to them all as grandma/grandpa. MIL always refers to herself as MawMaw, which I refuse to repeat or encourage. Call me petty, but I can't stand her and she pronounces MawMaw and Momma the friggin same way. Eff that. It's MY kid, ya heifer.
DD can call them whatever she wants.
Our parents decided what they wanted to be called.
My parents are Nana and Poppy
MIL is Grammy. SFIL is Grandpa Bob
FIL is Grandpa, SMIL is Grandma.
Granted, I fully realize that when DS is actually talking, he might come up with completely different names for them.
Dh's parents are Grammy & Grampy since they have 7 other g-kids.
And, mine are Nana and Papa (their 1st gbaby).
I have always called my grandparents by some made up cute name and Collins parents will be the same way... they all picked their own!
My parents: Cici and Daddy Bob
DH Dad and stepmom: Nana and Papa
DH Mom and stepdad: Noni and Pop
SIL: Oshie (shes younger and wanted one too
DD already paved the way for us.
She calls my parents Memaw and Papa and DH's parents MooMoo and Papa.
We called my grandparents Mommom & Poppop. I only knew my Moms parent's though so we didn't have that issue.
DD calls my Mom Nana (my neice & nephew already gave her that name). She will probably call MIL Grandma.
We told the grandparents that they could pick. My parents are MomMom and PopPop (which is what I called both sets of grandparents) and my ILs are Grandma and Grandpa.
Just say Grandma and Grandpa Lastname when you're talking about them. When you're at their house, they are just Grandma and Grandpa.
Much to my mom's delight, I started calling my dad Grumpa (he's been know to be a little, well, grouchy) since K was born and it stuck. He said "If I have to be Grumpa, you have to be Grandma Grunt" which has kind of stuck- we call her G.G. or Grandma G.G. Kate is already calling her G.G. somtimes.
My ILs aren't nearly as big a part of K's daily life (we live across the street from my folks, so we see them everyday) and so far they're just Grandma and Grandpa.
Both my parents and DH's parents are divorced and all of our grandparents except for my mom's parents are divorced... so DD has a TON of grandparents and great-grandparents. We are just keeping the names they already have (either from us when we were kids or from other grandkids). There are a couple of grandmas/grandpas/papaws... but we just call them Papaw *insert last name*.
Eventually your LO is probably going to come up with a name on their own to call the grandparents (maybe he'll mispronounce it and it will stick or maybe he'll just start calling them something completely different.) I wouldn't worry too much
I just realized I didn't answer what we actually call them... here goes:
My mom and stepdad" Grammy and Grandpa
My dad and stepmom: Papaw and Grandma
MIL and her FI: Mamaw and Grampy
FIL: Papaw
Our grandparents: Nana/Pops, Grandma/Grandpa (2 of these), Mawmaw/Pawpaw, Grandpops
My husband's parents chose grandma and grandpa a few years ago--for our dogs!
Our dogs actually know these names for them.
My parents waited until we actually had a baby, and refer to themselves as "Beste" (Danish for "grandma") and "Big Daddy."