As i mentioned I took SS swimming Fri eve. I also took him into the womans changing room. He was fine at first until we turned a corner and there was a very over weight naked lady. He panicked and ran. He's only 7 but poor little mister was cowering behind his towel the whole time.
At what age did you guys let your SS/DS into the mens changing rooms alone? Also would you trust them to shower properly?
Re: Whats the appropriate age?
Aww, poor baby!
I'd let him cower behind a towel or let him shower at home. I think he's have to be about ten, vocal and very familiar with what constitutes inappropriate behavior before I allowed him to go shower naked with grown men.
Besides, the naked men might scare him more than the naked women at that point.
Pete showers on his own at home. I remind him before he gets in what to wash, grill him after he gets out to make sure he did.
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Speaking from an entirely non-mom stand point, I would be appalled if a 7 year old boy saw me naked in the womens locker room. I would be more than appalled, I would be outraged.
To me if they are old enough to be embarassed, then they are too old to be in there. It sucks, and I would hate to be in that postion as a parent, but to me the non-parent it is really inappropriate.