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I just had a panic attack at work :(

Ginger71Ginger71 member
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I am kind of new here but I need a little support. Embarrassed

My 1st call from a client today and he was screaming at me for no reason. Normally, I am so good with the irate people that everyone has me talk to them but after a weekend w/ OHSS and driving to NYC at 4 am yesterday, I am on my last damn nerve! My heart started pounding and I couldn't breathe so someone else had to take the call.

I hope it doesn't affect my transfer tomorrow! Stress is so bad for IVF. Sad Please make me feel better and tell me I didn't mess up my transfer.

Thanks 

 

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Re: I just had a panic attack at work :(

  • Temp848906437505510Temp848906437505510
    Aw, honey, you didn't mess up your transfer!  Just try to do what you can to relax a little today and especially after your transfer.  But, I promise, you didn't do anything to mess up your waiting uterus!
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  • MoFreeMoFree member
    How could you have messed up your transfer when it hasn't taken place yet.  Is it possible to take some time tonight to focus on getting your body and psyche into a place of calm and relaxation, maybe close your eyes and meditate for a little while until you feel a sense of peace.  Remember, not everyone is serene and relaxed when they conceive, so you'll be fine.  Good luck tomorrow.
    TTC since 3-08 IVF # 1 Dec 2011 BFP DD born at 31 weeks 6-24-12

    FET #1 Dec 2013 BFN

    FET # 2 Feb 2014 BFN

    No more frosties

    IVF #2. September 2014

    PGD yielded 2 perfect 5d blasts

    SET November 9, 2014
    Nov 23, 2014. Another BFN

    Not sure where to go from here.

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  • Suzi-G-Suzi-G- member
    Aww I'm sorry you're upset but I'm sure it won't affect your transfer.  Can you maybe go outside or somewhere quiet for a few minutes to sort of regroup.  I have a quiet stairwell with a sunny windowsill here at work that I go and sit in when I need a minute to get ahold of myself. 
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  • LuvBugKelLuvBugKel
    I'm so sorry about the turd on the phone.  I'm sure you have done nothing to affect your transfer, you will be fine.  Go take a little walk if it's sunny outside and get some good sun relaxation.  Then tonight go home snuggle up with a good book or movie and relax with your wonderful DH.  Your transfer will go just fine, we are all thinking and wishing the best for you. 
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member
    Thanks ladies! I have done so well this cycle keeping the stress level down and I am so mad at myself for letting myself get so worked up. I did walk away for a little while for some fresh air and I feel better. When I go home I'll listen to ocean sounds on my ipod and hopefully get some sleep.
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