We all live in the same town. I see my mom everyday..she goes to the gym with me. ILs we see about twice a week for about 20 minutes just to stop by say hi and see whats new.
We see FIL every other week of so for a few hours each visit. MIL maybe once every couple months for an hour or so. My parents live 5-6 hours away but I see them fairly often.
All of my family and my inlaws live in the same town as us. My IL's usually watch the girls one day a week so I can get other things done. My SIL likes to come over and visit with us at least twice a month. My mom comes to visit or takes the girls overnight 2 or three times a month. My dad comes to visit once a week and stays for an hour or so.
We live about 45 mins from my parents, and we see them about once or twice every couple of weeks. They babysit for us, usually we see them for the whole day or 1/2 a day.
My parents live about 10 minutes away, my ILs about 5 minutes away. We see my parents 4-5 times a week whether it be for a quick lunch, dinner, visit, etc. We see ILs once every 3-4 months, mostly for holidays and birthdays, or if we bump into them at the grocery store.
ILs live 5 minutes away. We go over there every Sunday afternoon & stay for dinner.My mom lives about 25 minutes away & hardly see her. We have an odd relationship.?
both my parents and my sister's family live about a mile in 2 directions from my house. We generally see them every week on Sundays for dinner- we've been doing that for years. That's all- unless we need a babysitter - they are all always up for watching Griffin.
They are both every non-intrusive and never do "drop bys" or anything like that. If they did- we's start answering the door naked to make it stop, lol.
DH's mom lives 40 minutes away and thankfully we don't see her that often - she's a heavy smoker so we won't take Griffin to her house and she doesn't like to drive her often to visit - which i'm totally fine with. DH does talk to her every day.
Re: if you live close to family (yours or ILs) how often do you see them?
ILs live 5 minutes away. We go over there every Sunday afternoon & stay for dinner.My mom lives about 25 minutes away & hardly see her. We have an odd relationship.?
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both my parents and my sister's family live about a mile in 2 directions from my house. We generally see them every week on Sundays for dinner- we've been doing that for years. That's all- unless we need a babysitter - they are all always up for watching Griffin.
They are both every non-intrusive and never do "drop bys" or anything like that. If they did- we's start answering the door naked to make it stop, lol.
DH's mom lives 40 minutes away and thankfully we don't see her that often - she's a heavy smoker so we won't take Griffin to her house and she doesn't like to drive her often to visit - which i'm totally fine with. DH does talk to her every day.