Babies: 9 - 12 Months

I'm still mad (NIP related)

The more I think about it, the more irritated I get. How dare she sit and make faces at me for feeding my kid? I even had a blanket over Lili (uh.. until Lili threw it off and flashed her my DDs), so what did she have to complain about?

I hope I see her again at the park today. I'll nurse without the blanket and try to sit right next to her. 

Re: I'm still mad (NIP related)

  • OP?

    EDIT: Nevermind, I found it.  You're right.  She's a douchebag.

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  • OP?

    You're allowed to NIP, and she's allowed to make faces. Love that freedom.

     

  • DO IT!  DO IT!
  • imageGRKaters:

    OP?

    You're allowed to NIP, and she's allowed to make faces. Love that freedom.

     

    And I'm allowed to go and tell her to feed her kids in the nasty park bathroom, right?

  • imagekelbrian:
    imageGRKaters:

    OP?

    You're allowed to NIP, and she's allowed to make faces. Love that freedom.

     

    And I'm allowed to go and tell her to feed her kids in the nasty park bathroom, right?

    Kel, I think what GRK is trying to say is that yes, it sucks that she had that reaction to your NIP and made her feelings quite obvious, as difficult as it is sometimes, you really can't take it to heart.  You're not being obscene, nor are you being inappropriate.  You are feeding your child.  That other woman (and anyone else) can just suck it. 

    (But not yours, because that would definitely be inappropriate.)

  • *Bre**Bre* member
    If it makes you feel better I saw 4 women NIP yesterday. I smiled at them :)
  • Kel honey.  Don't stew.  Use your voice.  Say something..Ask if you are bothering her...

     

    (cause what if?? she had a masectomy and couldn't bf and was sad? or was a vampire and was trying not to eat you??? seriously what iff?????)

  • imageakiernan:

    Kel, I think what GRK is trying to say is that yes, it sucks that she had that reaction to your NIP and made her feelings quite obvious, as difficult as it is sometimes, you really can't take it to heart.  You're not being obscene, nor are you being inappropriate.  You are feeding your child.  That other woman (and anyone else) can just suck it. 

    (But not yours, because that would definitely be inappropriate.)

    Oh, I know that she wasn't being biitchy or anything. I was just trying to be funny :O) 

    And I am LMAO at the last comment. 

  • imageBrahimBride:

    or was a vampire and was trying not to eat you??? seriously what iff?????)

    this!!  Smile

    DD 6/17/08, DD 6/9/10, DD 12/15/11
    BFP 5/24/13 - Natural MC 6/7/13
    BFP 8/13/13 - Natural MC 8/27/13
    Ovarian Mass = removal of left ovary & tube 9/13
    BFP 4/24/14 - Tubal Pregnancy 5/7/14
    Removal of  ruptured right tube 5/8/14
    IVF or adoption??
  • imageBrahimBride:

    Kel honey.  Don't stew.  Use your voice.  Say something..Ask if you are bothering her...

     

    (cause what if?? she had a masectomy and couldn't bf and was sad? or was a vampire and was trying not to eat you??? seriously what iff?????)

    Oh BB. You always cause me to stop and ponder. She did not look sad, though, I can tell you that much. She looked pretty disgusted. And the fact that she got up and left immediately after being flashed, that kind of reaffirms my beliefs. 

    But man, I did not think about the vampire issue. I'm so heartless! 

  • as a fellow nurser, I don't appreciate her reaction but I also have to remember that everyone isn't comfortable with nursing.  They don't have to be, that's their right. 

     **edit: please don't think that I in any way think the way she behaved was appropriate or right.  She could have handled it like a grown up and looked away or excused herself without the 5 yr old faces**

    DD 6/17/08, DD 6/9/10, DD 12/15/11
    BFP 5/24/13 - Natural MC 6/7/13
    BFP 8/13/13 - Natural MC 8/27/13
    Ovarian Mass = removal of left ovary & tube 9/13
    BFP 4/24/14 - Tubal Pregnancy 5/7/14
    Removal of  ruptured right tube 5/8/14
    IVF or adoption??
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