1st Trimester

Epidurals?

This is ridiculous, but I'm pregnant and my boyfriend says that i should not get the epidural because it's going to make me get "soo fat" and he's going to leave me if i get that fat.He said that with his second child the mother got extremely big and her doctor said that it might make her fat? My mom on the other hand says he doesn't know what he is talking about & that it's just like novocaine for the mouth. So is it true, does it make you fat?
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Re: Epidurals?

  • Thats the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.
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  • Trying...not...to...laugh

    BAHAHAHA

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  • No way in hell this is a serious post.
  • If this is not some kind of a joke, your boyfriend is an idiot.
  • That's why I'm not getting one.  I learned my lesson with my other three kids.  ALL THREE of their dad's took one look at my bloated face from the epidural and ran for the hills.  NO WAY I'm gonna make that mistake again!
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  • I'm just kind of looking for an answer guys, help me out?
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  • Mud. Most definitely.

    And since I have time to kill...no an epidural will not make you fat. It's pain killer for cryin' out loud..it leaves you system sooner than later...it's just a short term drug. And find a new boyfriend stat..one with more than a 4th grade education, lessons in common sense and a lesson in good manners.

  • imagemandaphilly:
    I'm just kind of looking for an answer guys, help me out?

    Does your boyfriend know that being pregnant is going to make you "sooo fat"?

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  • imagedairygirl19:

    Mud. Most definitely.

    And since I have time to kill...no an epidural will not make you fat. It's pain killer for cryin' out loud..it leaves you system sooner than later...it's just a short term drug. And find a new boyfriend stat..one with more than a 4th grade education, lessons in common sense and a lesson in good manners.

     

     

    thank you! i know that's what i said to him. i told him "if i don't get the epidural your hand is going to come off in the delivery room."

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  • This can't be serious.  If it is, your bf needs to grow up.  I've never heard of anything about an epidural making you fat and I personally didn't have any issues like that with my first.  Besides, it really isn't his choice what you do with your body as long as it doesn't affect the baby.
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  • imagemandaphilly:
    I'm just kind of looking for an answer guys, help me out?

    Yes. Yes it will make you fat, and your boyfriend will leave you to have children with someone else. Also, I hope you don't have a tattoo on your lower back, 'cause they can't do epidurals through those. You'll get some kind of ink infection and die.

  • imageAshNicole331:

    imagemandaphilly:
    I'm just kind of looking for an answer guys, help me out?

    Does your boyfriend know that being pregnant is going to make you "sooo fat"?

     

     Yeah, he's all excited for the baby belly. But he said if i don't loose all my baby weight within two months he's leaving and taking the baby.

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  • Thank you, I needed a good laugh today. Seriously, your boyfriend is an idiot if this is for real.
  • imageAshNicole331:

    imagemandaphilly:
    I'm just kind of looking for an answer guys, help me out?

    Does your boyfriend know that being pregnant is going to make you "sooo fat"?

    LMAO. That's what I thought! 

    MUD!

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  • imagemandaphilly:
    imageAshNicole331:

    imagemandaphilly:
    I'm just kind of looking for an answer guys, help me out?

    Does your boyfriend know that being pregnant is going to make you "sooo fat"?

     

     Yeah, he's all excited for the baby belly. But he said if i don't loose all my baby weight within two months he's leaving and taking the baby.

    At least you're an entertaining troll

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  • imagepeppermintgirl:

    imagemandaphilly:
    I'm just kind of looking for an answer guys, help me out?

    Yes. Yes it will make you fat, and your boyfriend will leave you to have children with someone else. Also, I hope you don't have a tattoo on your lower back, 'cause they can't do epidurals through those. You'll get some kind of ink infection and die.

     

    No i don't have any tattoos, but are you being serious because one says that it will not make you fat and then here you are saying it's going to make me fat. Yeah this post may sound ridiculous to you guys. But I'm only 17 and I'm pregnant. Okay so I'm not coming on here to ask silly questions, even though it may be silly to you guys. I'm just looking for an answer so i can just tell him what's really going to happen. I'm scared *** less so if we could just all cut the sarcasim for 5 minutes please?

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  • imagemandaphilly:
    imageAshNicole331:

    imagemandaphilly:
    I'm just kind of looking for an answer guys, help me out?

    Does your boyfriend know that being pregnant is going to make you "sooo fat"?

     

     Yeah, he's all excited for the baby belly. But he said if i don't loose all my baby weight within two months he's leaving and taking the baby.

    Seriously, don't try so hard to be the love child of Baby Gaga and a Maury "paternity" episode. 

  • imagewkatie:
    That's why I'm not getting one.  I learned my lesson with my other three kids.  ALL THREE of their dad's took one look at my bloated face from the epidural and ran for the hills.  NO WAY I'm gonna make that mistake again!

    STFU.

  • imagemandaphilly:
    imagepeppermintgirl:

    imagemandaphilly:
    I'm just kind of looking for an answer guys, help me out?

    Yes. Yes it will make you fat, and your boyfriend will leave you to have children with someone else. Also, I hope you don't have a tattoo on your lower back, 'cause they can't do epidurals through those. You'll get some kind of ink infection and die.

     

    No i don't have any tattoos, but are you being serious because one says that it will not make you fat and then here you are saying it's going to make me fat. Yeah this post may sound ridiculous to you guys. But I'm only 17 and I'm pregnant. Okay so I'm not coming on here to ask silly questions, even though it may be silly to you guys. I'm just looking for an answer so i can just tell him what's really going to happen. I'm scared *** less so if we could just all cut the sarcasim for 5 minutes please?

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  • imageAshNicole331:


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    That must of took some effort. Come on I'm not even trying to be smart here, i just wanted an answer, why do you have to be so damn mean?

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  • Oh good lord.

    I'd be more worried that your child shares DNA with your boyfriend.

    Yes, I said it.

  • Ew no offense but he sounds like an A$$. YOu're the one giving birth YOU decide what to get- I can't believe he said he would leave you if you got fat!!!
  • total of 6 posts... all replies to her only post.

    Most definitely troll. 

    BTW, I'm sure Ash didn't make that graphic just for you, though I love it!!

  • imagebostonfingerlakes07:

    Oh good lord.

    I'd be more worried that your child shares DNA with your boyfriend.

    Yes, I said it.

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    This is where I would put in the "thumbs up" symbol but the symbols from this site don't show up on my MAC.

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  • What??  OMG total MUD. 
  • imagebostonfingerlakes07:

    Oh good lord.

    I'd be more worried that your child shares DNA with your boyfriend.

    Yes, I said it.

    AGREED!

  • For just a simple question, this has gotten blown out of proportion. I'm only seventeen years old, okay? You guys are all like what, in your 20's and 30's? I'm not coming on here and calling people names like a troll and claiming that this post is just made up drama. Because honestly it's not. You guys do not know me and the kind of situation I'm in with my boyfriend. He is older than me and is just very possessive, but I love him. Although this is considered a ridiculous post to you guys, is it a crime that i just wanted my friggen question answered honestly? No i honestly don't think it is. You guys are suppose to be grown-ups. This is how grown-ups act? Because calling people a troll and *** just made you look so immature. I didn't come on here to get blasted by everybody, i came here to get my question answers. & for those who answered honestly, thank you. But i don't understand how you can all sit here and just be so mean about one simple question. Sorry but i have NO idea what giving birth is all about, yeah you hear about it on tv and through your friends and family. But i've never experienced in, but im about to experience it in about 7 months. So thanks alot guys. I thought this fourm was made to help each other and get each others advice, but i guess not.
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  • by sad chance this isn't mud... I say leave his pathetic a$$ and don't give him a chance to ever talk to you like that or let your child have that type of influence around.

    Seriously though, no an epidural will not make you fat. It might make you bloated for a few hours but it will not make you fat. That's absolute ignorance on his part.

    CP 3/07
    BFP 5/07 - Kylie born 2/08.       BPF 2/09 - Alexandra born 10/09.
    TTC since 8/13 - diagnosed difficulty conceiving due to LP defect. Took vitamin B and Vitex Berry to help lengthen.
    BFP 2/14 - Missed M/C found at 8.5 weeks. D&C at 9w2d. Partial Molar Pregnancy.
    BFP 11/14
  • So THAT is why my mom wanted me to wait until I was married to have sex! I wont have a boyfriend shallow enough to threaten to leave if I gain weight 'cause of pregnancy!

    And if you want a serious answer and am tired of the snarky comments, call a doctor or nurse's line. Seriously. 

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  • imagemandaphilly:
    For just a simple question, this has gotten blown out of proportion. I'm only seventeen years old, okay? You guys are all like what, in your 20's and 30's? I'm not coming on here and calling people names like a troll and claiming that this post is just made up drama. Because honestly it's not. You guys do not know me and the kind of situation I'm in with my boyfriend. He is older than me and is just very possessive, but I love him. Although this is considered a ridiculous post to you guys, is it a crime that i just wanted my friggen question answered honestly? No i honestly don't think it is. You guys are suppose to be grown-ups. This is how grown-ups act? Because calling people a troll and *** just made you look so immature. I didn't come on here to get blasted by everybody, i came here to get my question answers. & for those who answered honestly, thank you. But i don't understand how you can all sit here and just be so mean about one simple question. Sorry but i have NO idea what giving birth is all about, yeah you hear about it on tv and through your friends and family. But i've never experienced in, but im about to experience it in about 7 months. So thanks alot guys. I thought this fourm was made to help each other and get each others advice, but i guess not.

    You are right, I'm horribly ashamed. In an attempt to make peace, I suggest this:

    BabyGaga

  • babygaga.com

    You will find many other girls just like you who you could probably relate with having issues with their "baby daddy". 

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  • imageMrsL.inMarch:

    imagemandaphilly:
    For just a simple question, this has gotten blown out of proportion. I'm only seventeen years old, okay? You guys are all like what, in your 20's and 30's? I'm not coming on here and calling people names like a troll and claiming that this post is just made up drama. Because honestly it's not. You guys do not know me and the kind of situation I'm in with my boyfriend. He is older than me and is just very possessive, but I love him. Although this is considered a ridiculous post to you guys, is it a crime that i just wanted my friggen question answered honestly? No i honestly don't think it is. You guys are suppose to be grown-ups. This is how grown-ups act? Because calling people a troll and *** just made you look so immature. I didn't come on here to get blasted by everybody, i came here to get my question answers. & for those who answered honestly, thank you. But i don't understand how you can all sit here and just be so mean about one simple question. Sorry but i have NO idea what giving birth is all about, yeah you hear about it on tv and through your friends and family. But i've never experienced in, but im about to experience it in about 7 months. So thanks alot guys. I thought this fourm was made to help each other and get each others advice, but i guess not.

    You are right, I'm horribly ashamed. In an attempt to make peace, I suggest this:

    BabyGaga

    Great minds think alike!

    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker ashley jordan est. 06.07.08 | siesta key, fl
  • I'm sorry, what???????
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  • imagekabarbanel:
    I'm sorry, what???????

    Are you 40 weeks in this pic?? You look great! 

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  • imagekabarbanel:
    I'm sorry, what???????

    Wow! Lucky girl! You're going to meet your baby soon! Wishes for a healthy delivery!! 

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  • imagemandaphilly:
    He said that with his second child ...

    He has two more kids? Wowzers.

    Trust your mom on this one.  He sounds like a real winner.Indifferent

  • Maybe someone ought to warn her about irish twins while we have her here! LOL!
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  • If this is real, you need to open your eyes and get a dose of reality.  Time to grow up sweet pea.  You are having a baby.  Your bf sounds like a real winner (*note the sarcasm).  Time to leave his dumbass and whatever you do, finish school.  You don't need to turn into the same dumbass.
    BFP #1 (DS, 10/98), BFP #2 (DD, 10/09)
    BFP #3 -mm/c @ 7wks, discovered at 9wks, D&C 9/28
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  • imagemandaphilly:
    For just a simple question, this has gotten blown out of proportion. I'm only seventeen years old, okay? You guys are all like what, in your 20's and 30's? I'm not coming on here and calling people names like a troll and claiming that this post is just made up drama. Because honestly it's not. You guys do not know me and the kind of situation I'm in with my boyfriend. He is older than me and is just very possessive, but I love him. Although this is considered a ridiculous post to you guys, is it a crime that i just wanted my friggen question answered honestly? No i honestly don't think it is. You guys are suppose to be grown-ups. This is how grown-ups act? Because calling people a troll and *** just made you look so immature. I didn't come on here to get blasted by everybody, i came here to get my question answers. & for those who answered honestly, thank you. But i don't understand how you can all sit here and just be so mean about one simple question. Sorry but i have NO idea what giving birth is all about, yeah you hear about it on tv and through your friends and family. But i've never experienced in, but im about to experience it in about 7 months. So thanks alot guys. I thought this fourm was made to help each other and get each others advice, but i guess not.

     

    Maybe you should have thought about your age and being with a older controlling moron before you got yourself into this situation. I would t least recommend starting to get some books.. educate yourself. Talk to your doctor. Loose the moron. If he already has kids and is still that stupid ont he issue then there is your sign.

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