TTC After a Loss

When it rains, it pours

So I went to my OB office for another u/s to confirm the loss. The NP there is awesome - first time I ever had her (usually my OB does everything herself but she is on vacation). She was very patient and took her time with the ultra sound. She looked at everything - lining, position of the sac, measurements and all.
Well, she actually found 2 sacs. I measuring 5 weeks and 1 too small to measure. So it looks like I m/c twins :(

She asked for the day of my IUI, and I mentioned I was charting and know that I implanted late - she even let me log on to her computer to show her my FF chart!!!!!!
Taking all those dates in consideration she told me I should be measuring at least 7w1d. According to my LMP I should be 7w5d.
She does not think it will come out on its own. It has no signs of bleeding or deterioration. Since it has been over for 2 weeks now, she suggested (and actually really pushed it) for a D&C. I scheduled it for next wedn. but still wanna talk to Dh and RE about it.

It really hurts to know I could have had twins. My dad has a twin brother and his mom has a twin sister. His sister gave me 2 twin cousins.... I would be so happy to continue the family "tradition" :(

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  • Aw luvs.  I am so so sorry.  This is so unfair.  I'm thinking of you and praying for you.  ((HUGS))
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  • I am so sorry. I wish I could give you a hug, I feel so awful for you.
  • Oh Luvs! ((((Hugs))))
  • Oh Luvs, I am so sorry!!  I don't have the words.  ((BIG HUGS))
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  • It sure does...I am sorry for your loses! ((((HUGS))))
  • I am sorry. I've been thinking of you and your DH.

     

    FWIW, my missed m/c was discovered at 10 weeks exactly and I was measuring at 7 weeks, 5 days. At the time my cervix was "tightly closed" and I was having minimal brown spotting. I had a natural m/c 6 days later at 10 weeks, 6 days. I really wanted to avoid the D&C and the OB was supportive.

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  • I am so.....So, so sorry for your loss...  (((hugs)))
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  • Oh luvs, I am so so sorry.  I'm sure that was hard news to hear.  GL with your decision on the D&C, I'll continue to keep you in my thoughts & prayers.  Big hugs.
  • I am so sorry Luvs.  You're in my thoughts and prayers. 
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  • :::big hugs::: I am so sorry. Your NP sounds like a God send. Take your time deceiding what you want to do. You don't want to regret anything. All my love.

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  • I'm sorry... *hugs*
  • Oh luvs, i'm so sorry. This probably make this loss even more difficult. I'm glad she was really understanding and patient with you. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts. :::hugs:::
    bfp #1 - 8/17/2008, natural m/c 8/25/2008, EDD 4/21/2009 bfp #2 - 10/6/2008, hb stopped at 7 w 3 d, d&e on 11/7/2008, EDD 6/19/2009 bfp #3- 3/14/2009.... stick, baby, stick!!!! (14 dpo - hcg 188, 16 dpo - hcg 421, 24 dpo - hcg 14,760!, 4/2 healthy HB of 130 bpm, 4/16 HB of 178 bpm!) bfp #4- 2/2/2011, EDD 10/17/2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • I am so sorry for your losses.  ((((HUGS))))

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  • Big Hugs Luvs!
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  • Aww Luvs, I am so sorry.
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  • Awww luvs I'm sorry... many many HUGS to you
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  • Oh Luvs. I am so sorry! I wish I could just reach out and give you a huge hug.

    Don't give up hope, you will be a mommy! Will they be doing any sort of testing?

  • I'm so very sorry Luciana, I can't imagine how sad you must be. Big hugs and I hope everything goes well next week.
  • I am so sorry.  (((Big Hug))
  • I am so sorry, you are in my thoughts.
  • I am so so sorry.
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  • So sorry for your loss.  I too lost twins.  I know how it hurts.  ((((((((((BIG HUG)))))))))))))
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  • How horrible for you!!  I am crushed for you, that is so sad.  I know it makes this situation even worse.  ((HUGE HUGS))
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  • I am so so so sorry.
  • This is so devastating Luvs, I'm so sorry =(
    Started TTC in August 2007, 1st BFP March 2008, natural m/c April 11th, 2008. 2nd BFP 1/1/09, diagnosed with possible ectopic 1/16/09, got Methotrexate shot 1/18/09. On Bromocriptine to balance my high prolactin levels (thanks to tiny brain tumor) that messes with my body. Long cycles and unexplained infertility suck monkey balls! July 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot TI prog. supps= negative. August 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot IUI prog. supps=negative. September 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot b2b IUI's prog. supps: negative. October 09- Clomid 100mg HCG b2b IUI's prog.supps: negative. November 09- cycle cancelled due to cyst.... IVF is next.... December 09- Beginning of IVF, Lupron, BCP's Jan-Feb 10- IVF retrieved 6 matured eggs, all fertilized, 2 transferred, 1 lost, 3 frozen= BFP! betas: 8dp5dt (13dpo)= 176, 11dp5dt (16dpo)= 728! October 2010: Boy/Girl twins born. Now... trying to get fit!
  • I'm so sorry!!! :::HUGS:::
  • Hi Buddy: I am so sorry to read about the twins. It does seem to be alot of sad news this week. It can only get better my friend. I'll be thinking of you as always.
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  • Luvs I am so sorry!  I am thinking of you!
  • I'm so sorry luvs.
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  • Oh Luvs, I am so sorry.... I don't even know what to say but sorry.

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  • I am so sorry hun!

    Lots of ((HUGS))

     

    Our angel is in heaven 12/12/08
    BFP 2/25/09
    HCG 3/6=518 3/8=1230
    1st Ultrasound 3/18 FHR=103
    2nd U/S 3/20 FHR=118!!
    3rd U/S 4/1 FHR=169 :)
    BIG U/S 5/22=IT'S A BOY! FHR-148
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    HCG 5/31=140 P=9 HCG 6/2=292 P=11
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    U/S 8/18=IT'S A BOY! FHR-141 :)
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  • I am so sorry.
    7 mm/c
    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

  • Ugh.  It would almost be better not to know that.  I'm so sorry Luvs.  I'm glad you are probably going ahead with the D&C though.  Seems like the best way to put it behind you and move on.  This waiting is too much of a burden.  (((HUGE HUGS)))
    4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
    5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
    IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
    Beta #1: 485
    Beta #2: 2,495
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  • Oh hun.  I am so sorry!  That does suck.  Good luck!
  • Oh my gosh...that's terrible...what a week it has been for you. It isn't fair for some of us to have so much heartbreak, and I wish there was somthing I could say to erase even a little bit of your pain. I'm very sorry about this new info. You're in my thoughts.
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  • Luvs. I am so very sorry. My heart aches for you.
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  • Uhg! so sorry luvs :-( that hurts twice as bad.

    big hugs to you!

    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
  • I am so sorry Luciana. I will be thinking of you. Keep me posted on things and if you need to email me you got it! Love you! Big hugs.
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  • Luvs, I am so sorry for your loss.. I know there really arent any words to make it better just know that your not alone and all of us here are feeling for you in ways only us TTCAL girls can..  **HUGS**

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