Community› The Bump Message Boards› TTC After a Loss
TTC After a Loss
New Discussion

DH and I officially decided to stop TTC for a while

MrsPattersonMrsPatterson member
in TTC After a Loss

It was such a difficult decision.  My therapist and I have been talking a lot about how just the simple act of not taking my temperature has stopped my obsessive thinking about TTC, and DH and I agreed that we should stop trying for a while so we can take a break and get back on track with each other.  We don't have a set period of time in mind, but I'm thinking it will be in the 4-6 month range.  At that point, we can begin trying again and pursue fertility testing if we want.  I am starting Weight Watchers on Saturday and plan to use this time to get healthy and start working out.  I will still be hanging out on this board though, because I love you ladies and I want to be around to see all the BFPs! 

AlternaTickers - Cool, free Web tickers Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Photobucket
Report Reply to Post

Re: DH and I officially decided to stop TTC for a while

  • xleslieraexxleslieraex member
    I know that's gotta be a tough decision, but it's for sure worth it. Have fun and GL.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • Mia07Mia07
    That is a brave decision, I wish you the best of luck with everything during your break.
    Report Reply
  • MelissaAB5579MelissaAB5579 member
    I think it's good you guys decided together. Who knows? Maybe it will happen on your break. GL!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • MrsGhappilyeverafterMrsGhappilyeverafter
    I know that's a hard decision to make.  I hope it helps you to reconnect with one another.  I'm glad you'll be sticking around :)
    Report Reply
  • str8otastr8ota member
    Where in metro Detroit are you located?  I'm always looking for a workout buddy in the Grosse Pointe area.
    Report Reply
  • MrsPattersonMrsPatterson member

    imagestr8ota:
    Where in metro Detroit are you located?  I'm always looking for a workout buddy in the Grosse Pointe area.

    I just noticed in an earlier post that you're a Metro Detroiter!  I was going to ask you where you're from.  Unfortunately, Grosse Pointe is a bit of a hike for me.  I'm in Livonia.  I wish we were closer, I would love to be able to meet up a few times a week to work out!

    AlternaTickers - Cool, free Web tickers Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Photobucket
    Report Reply
  • kristinem17kristinem17 member

    Hey Katie!  I wish you the best of luck during your break.  I too need to get healthier and start working on it... I need a jump start to get me motivated enough to do it though...

    But hey - you are still in the 2ww right?  So if you are PG this cycle, you won't need to take the break anyway!  :)

     

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • HisKathyHisKathy
    imagekristinem17:

    But hey - you are still in the 2ww right?  So if you are PG this cycle, you won't need to take the break anyway!  :)

    I was totally planning on doing the same thing if I didn't get my BFP....I hope the same thing happens to you!  If not, I think a break is a great idea and a lot of the time you get KU when you finally relax and just let it happen.  I wish you the best

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • MrsPattersonMrsPatterson member
    imagekristinem17:

    But hey - you are still in the 2ww right?  So if you are PG this cycle, you won't need to take the break anyway!  :)

    '

    I am REALLY hoping!  I'm not feeling like I am pg, but you never know!  I'm more hopeful for you! 

    AlternaTickers - Cool, free Web tickers Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Photobucket
    Report Reply
  • Ssweets04Ssweets04 member
    A break is good sometimes, it takes courage to go for it though. So good for you. I'm kinda relieved that I'm forced to take one for a while too, I feel more relaxed now and not driving myself crazy as much. I wish you all the luck hon and I'm glad you are sticking around =)
    Started TTC in August 2007, 1st BFP March 2008, natural m/c April 11th, 2008. 2nd BFP 1/1/09, diagnosed with possible ectopic 1/16/09, got Methotrexate shot 1/18/09. On Bromocriptine to balance my high prolactin levels (thanks to tiny brain tumor) that messes with my body. Long cycles and unexplained infertility suck monkey balls! July 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot TI prog. supps= negative. August 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot IUI prog. supps=negative. September 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot b2b IUI's prog. supps: negative. October 09- Clomid 100mg HCG b2b IUI's prog.supps: negative. November 09- cycle cancelled due to cyst.... IVF is next.... December 09- Beginning of IVF, Lupron, BCP's Jan-Feb 10- IVF retrieved 6 matured eggs, all fertilized, 2 transferred, 1 lost, 3 frozen= BFP! betas: 8dp5dt (13dpo)= 176, 11dp5dt (16dpo)= 728! October 2010: Boy/Girl twins born. Now... trying to get fit!
    Report Reply
  • redsox2934redsox2934
    Like the pp's said, good for you for taking a brave step.  Good luck with the break... I hope you find that it helps you.  I have been patiently waiting to TTC again after my miscarriage... I'm going to start in April, I think.  I've been training for a 1/2 marathon... I cannot tell you how great I feel and how much it is helping me.  I really feel stronger physically and emotionally and I tear up when I think of actually finishing this race.  Running is very therapeutic, and 4-6 months would be a perfect amount of time to train, even if you're not a runner right now.  If you're interested in this idea at all and want to contact me, please do.  My blog is also mostly about my training, so you can check that out if you want.  Good luck!  Oh, one more thing, the training is helping to keep my mind off TTC.  Okay, that's it!  GL!
    Report Reply
  • jen-dalejen-dale member

    I really admire this decision you have made. I honestly know I am terrified to take a break. I am sure if I get a BFN this month, we may have that talk as well.

    I hope you get exactly what you need out of your break time!

    Good Luck to you!

    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
    You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

    Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    2IF does not always equal 3IF...Surprise!
    Lilypie Maternity tickers
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"