DH just doesn't understand!!!

deedeew80 · February 2009

DH was giving me a hard time today about TTC! He thinks we should just let nature take its course! He thinks I read too much into TTC. He thinks I'm obsessing over the whole TTC! He doesn't understand!! I had a talk to him about it all, explaining, in detail, everything that goes into TTC. I still don't think he gets it! Back in Oct, when we were on our honeymoon, we said we would TTC, but just let it happen, if it didn't, oh well. Well, it happened right away. Eventhough we knew I would be ovulating sometime that week, I never harped on it. Since I was PG already and had a mc, I REALLY want to be PG this time!! Ok, so maybe I am obsessing over it all. But I want it to happen SO bad!! Hopefully I won't be disappointed! Thanks for listening to my vent!

Babs022 · February 2009

I'm crossing my fingers for you!!!! I hope this is it for ya!

melmel10 · February 2009

Mine is the same way. He thinks I am in a "race" with my friends but can't seem to understand that i had it twice and want it again. HE wants to take "breaks" and can't understand the importance in timing. I am totally with you. Trust me.

W.Bear · February 2009

I can totally empathize with you. My DH keeps telling me to relax and be patient that it will happen when the time is right. But all I want is for the time to be now or yesterday! I have become more concerned with ttc since our m/c in sept. Don't worry it will happen soon. GL (hugs)

jen-dale · February 2009

My DH has days like that. We don't really talk too much about TTC now. He just knows I temp every morning. And he knows when he gets "extra lovin". He does know the timing is crazy. He is also amazed at how "difficult" it shouldn't be since so many of our friends have had kids "on accident".