TTC After a Loss

XP: Baby Bunny is gone :(

Baby had no heartbeat. RE found a small Gestational sac but no baby. Not sure if it's a BO since we saw the fetal pole at 5w. Now I have to decide if I want a D&C or just wait. Life sucks right now.
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Re: XP: Baby Bunny is gone :(

  • My heart is just breaking for you. I'm so sorry. This is not fair. I will be keeping you and your DH in my prayers.
    bfp #1 - 8/17/2008, natural m/c 8/25/2008, EDD 4/21/2009 bfp #2 - 10/6/2008, hb stopped at 7 w 3 d, d&e on 11/7/2008, EDD 6/19/2009 bfp #3- 3/14/2009.... stick, baby, stick!!!! (14 dpo - hcg 188, 16 dpo - hcg 421, 24 dpo - hcg 14,760!, 4/2 healthy HB of 130 bpm, 4/16 HB of 178 bpm!) bfp #4- 2/2/2011, EDD 10/17/2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • My heart is breaking.
    4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
    5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
    IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
    Beta #1: 485
    Beta #2: 2,495
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  • Oh no luvs.  I am so sorry.  My heart breaks for you.  I can't imagine what you must be going through right now.  This is so unfair.  You're in my thoughts and prayers.
  • :( I am so sorry. That is just not fair. I wish you didn't have to go through this. I am praying for you.
  • This is devastating. Luvs I am so so so so incredibly sorry and just devastated to hear this. You will be in my prayers today.
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss.  You are in my thoughts and prayers!

    1st pregnancy: m/c began 1/12/09 d&c 1/13/09 8wks. Baby stopped growing at about 6wks.

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  • OMG Luvs...I am so sorry :( you are in my thoughts
  • I am so so sorry, no one deserves this.
  • Oh my God I'm so so sorry. Why does life have to be so unfair to us?? You and your DH will be in my thoughts and prayers.
    After many struggles we are ecstatically and cautiously expecting! FET#1- BFN FET#2- BFP 5w2d- 1 healthy sac 6w3d- Heartbeat!! Thank you God!! 120 BPM 7w3d-154 BPM 8w3d-169 BPM Baby moved for 1st time! 9w2d-HB 169 BPM Baby danced again! So blessed!! IT'S A GIRL!!! Daisypath Anniversary Years Ticker Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I am so sorry for your loss....it definitely isn't fair. Sending hugs and prayers your way.
  • Oh my God, I am so sorry.  This just is not fair.
  • Oh luvs!  I can't believe it!  I am so sorry.  Are they doing a repeat u/s in a week to confirm or are they pretty sure that is what it happening?  When my dr. thought I had a blighted ovum, they did several u/s to confirm.  I am so sorry.  I know there is nothing I can say, but I want you to know that I am thinking about you.
    7 mm/c
    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

  • I am so very sorry Luvs.  This is simply not fair. 

    ((HUGS))

    We are here for you.

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  • oh Luvs....I'm so incredibly sorry and sad for you right now.  If you are still planning on having an u/s later this week you should wait for that second opionion.  You haven't had any symptoms of a miscarriage so there may still be hope.  I'll be praying for you

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  • ugh... I am so so sorry for your loss! My heart literally sunk when I saw this.  I started to lurk around the time you got your BFP... so sorry :(
  • OMG, sweetie I am so so so soooo sorry!!! Please know that you are in my heart and my prayers, and anything you need- please do not hesitate to ask!!!

    You have my number, I will be here if you need me to be! Oh, I am just soo heart broken for you! This is so not fair! Lots hugs and all my love to you!

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  • Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear that.  Big hugs and I will keep you in my prayers.
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  • Oh, honey, I am so, so sorry. ((hugs))  This is just so unfair. Sad
  • I'm sorry Luvs!  I know how much this sucks!!!  It so not fair!! 

    I had D &C with my missed MC and it was very easy.   IF youhave any questions please let me know. 

    I'm here for you.

    Mary 

     

    10/17/2009 - Our Miracle came 10 weeks early. IF,2 MC and 1 Preemie we have our miracle.. Baby Hope 10 weeks 5days was taken from us on Dec 18, 2007. Forever with us and Forever missed. Triplets Lost baby A @ weeks, Lost Baby B at 6 weeks and lost baby Abigail at 14 weeks when she was born to little for this life..... Forever with us ....
  • wow luvs... I literally feel pain in my heart....my heart is breaking for you and your dh.  I'm so sorry.  You've come so far and this just isn't fair.  I feel like I can't say the right thing...my throat literally feels closed up. I just want you to know how very sorry I am. I wish I could reach through and hug you and cry with you. 

    I'm praying for you.

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  • Oh my God! I am so so sorry Luvs. You & DH are in my thoughts & prayers.
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  • Oh Luvs.  I am so very sorry.  My heart is breaking for you.  You are in my thoughts and prayers through all of this. 
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  • I'm so so sorry hun.
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  • NOOO! I am so sad for you right now. Broken Heart ::big hugs::
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  • I'm so sorry. Many thoughts and prayers headed your way.
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  • Oh no that's horrible! I want to cry right now but i'm at work. I think all of our hearts are breaking for you. We were all pulling for you and this baby.

    So very sorry 

    (((Big Hugs)))

    I would vote for d/c instead of the waiting and all that goes along with it.

     

    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
  • No Luvs!!!!  I'm so soooo sorry for you, the screen got all blurry because my eyes are overflowing with tears for you and your sweet baby bunny right now.  Crying & Broken Heart
  • Oh, this is so unfair!  My heart is just breaking for you ... we all know that there is no reason that any of us should have to suffer this pain, and you and YH are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  • Luvs I am so sorry. My heart is so broken for you. I saw the post and I had to read it twice because I could not believe it. I know how hard this is and I want you to know you can email me or send me a message on FB. It just is not fair and I wish I had more to say. I wish I could see you and just give you a big hug.
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  • Oh Luciana I am so very sorry, my heart is breaking for you right now.
  • Im so sorry for you..this breaks my heart for you
    BFP #1 06/15/08 Missed M/C 07/22/08
    BFP #2 11/08/08 Chemical Pregnancy 11/14/08
    BFP #3 01/17/10 Mark Jason born Sept 16 2010
    BFP #4 08/17/11 Chemical Pregnancy 08/23/11
    BFP #5 01/06/12 Blighted Ovum 2/2/12 M/C 2/11/12
    BFP #6 11/28/12 EDD 08/10/13 Saw/Heard Heartbeat 12/20!! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Pregnancy Ticker
  • oh no. I can't believe this.  I am so so very sorry. 

     

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  • Oh Luvs - I am so so sorry.  Please take care of yourself - I'll be thinking of you.
  • ((hugs)) I am so sorry!
  • Oh Lu, I am heart broken for you, I am SO SO SO SO SO sorry

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  • Oh no.  I am so sorry. 

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • sweetheart, i am so sorry. i know there are no words that are you going heal the hurt you are feeling today. just want you to know that i am praying for you and to not lose hope. ((HUGS))
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  • Luciana, my heart just sank when I saw this post. My heart is broken for you. Huge huge hugs - we're all thinking of you.
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