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Stage 1. Shock and Denial

TayteeTaytee
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This is miscarriage #3 for me. I almost started crying when I first saw blood but I sucked it up because I was at work. I was only 6 weeks and I told myself not to get excited when I first got the BFP because of my history. Now I'm just numb I guess.

 My doctor has agreed to do a bunch of testing before we start trying again. It's a good sign that we have DD but I don't know that I could take another loss, especially if there was anything I could have been doing (aspirin or whatever).

I feel like my body has betrayed me. Again.

BTW, when you google "Stages of" the first result it autofills is grief. The next is pregnancy =(

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Re: Stage 1. Shock and Denial

  • PurpleK26PurpleK26 member

    I'm sorry that you're going through this for a third time. I'm really glad that your dr. is going to do some testing. I will be praying that it's a simple fix. Try not to lose hope. I know that doesn't really do any good at this point...

    (((HUGS))) 

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  • redsox2934redsox2934

    I'm so sorry you're going through this again. :(

    ((Hugs))

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  • xnbridexnbride member
    I am so very sorry.  Hug your daughter very tight and I hope you get some answers very soon. 

     

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  • samm1983samm1983 member
    I am sorry for your losses. I know it is hard. I hope you get the answers you are looking for.
    7 mm/c
    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

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  • SuzPSuzP member
    I am so sorry for your losses.   I hope you are able to get some answers soon.  Big hugs to you. 
    Suzanne
    Mama to Lewis Elijah-11/18/05
    and Evangeline Mae - 12/06/07
    and two angels 3/17/07 at 5w and 12/16/08 - 11w partial molar pregnancy with bonus chemo
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  • peztopperpeztopper

    I'm sorry you are here. I am sorry for your loss.

    I'm glad your doctor will do some tests, hopefully you can get some answers.

    Hugs.?

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  • Leah&ColeLeah&Cole member

    I'm so sorry to hear that this is happening to you again.  Hug your little one tight and lean on your DH.  I hope your doc is able to find you the answers that you seek.

    Take care!

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  • ~*BREN*~~*BREN*~ member
    I am so very sorry to hear about your losses.  I hope that your doctor can give you some answers.  Please hang in there, we are here for you. {{Hugs}}
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  • waitingforbaby#2waitingforbaby#2
    Oh no, I'm so sorry :(     I hope you get answers soon (hugs)
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  • KiKiBean913KiKiBean913
    I'm so, so sorry about your loss. Don't give up! ((HUGS))
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