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stop bursting my bubble d*nm it....

quickchickquickchick
in 3rd Trimester

I know this is stupid but I am tired of people saying things now that I am close to the end like...

"Hope youre getting alot of sleep cause you are SURRRE gonna need it soon!"

"Enjoy your showers now because youre gonna be upset when your first shower of the day is right before you go to bed"

"Yeah you should go do such and such now because you know youre gonna be STUCK IN THE HOUSE forever now"

"Oh your gonna breastfeed?  You might as well plan on going topless for thenext six months in your house then because theyre gonna wanna eat every twenty minutes" 

UGH! 

I just hear this little voice in my head screaming.OK PEOPLE I UNDERSTAND THAT A BABY IS A LOT OF WORK AND THAT IT WILL BE A MASSIVE LIFE CHANGE BUT GOOD LORD IT HAS BEEN DONE BEFORE AND MIRACULOUSLY PEOPLE SURVIVED AND A FEW EVEN ENJOYED IT!! NOW STFU!

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  • CeltiCutieCeltiCutie member
    ya people are sooo freakin annoying.  I have started just walking away. lol
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  • Jen748Jen748 member

    There is this lady at work always tells me...oh your life is going to change...you have no idea.

    It makes me crazy...duh...I get it, my life is going to change in ways I can't imagine but how is that helpful or positive?????

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  • Knottie1448927774Knottie1448927774 member

    my MIL does this and it drives me INSANE. this was her response to us being pregnant..." well...get ready for nausea, constipation, heartburn, backaches...pregnancy is no joy ride my dear." uhh...thanks?! a simple congrats would have been nice.?

    her and dh's family have been like that the whole pregnancy. every single comment you listed above, i have gotten from them. its really irritating. i have my first shower today with dhs side of the family, and i wish i could have a drink before i go. i have a feeling my patience is going to run very thin with them.?

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  • quickchickquickchick
    I know! I just want to be like can you maybe let me enjoy this?  I know you hated it - I got that- but I am actually liking this right now so leave me alone bitter bettys!
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  • kyotokyoto
    I hate when people do that too. And in my experience... none of it was even true for me.
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  • librarianlisalibrarianlisa member
    I noted on Facebook the other day that I was thrilled that one of my fave authors had a new book out. A friend with no children commented, "Better get it read before the baby comes!" I was so happy when my friend who just had a baby in October replied, "You'll have tons of time to read when you're nursing." So HA.
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