Pregnant after a Loss

Lost the baby...

Had my followup u/s this morning.  There was not heartbeat this time.  DH and I are devastated.  We saw a strong and healthy heartbeat 3 times.  My heart aches.  Life can be so unfair.

I'm having a D&C monday morning and they will run tests on the fetal tissue.  We'll do RPL bloodwork in about 6 weeks.  I'm taking a long break, but I'll think of you all.  You are such wonderful women and I wish you the happiest and healthiest pregnancies.  

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  • Oh no! I'm so sorry honey. {{{HUG}}}
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  • Oh NO..... I am so very sorry... big hugs to you.
  • Oh no! I am so so sorry! {BIG HUGS}
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  • My heart hurts for you!  I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this again.  I hope you are able to get some answers.  My prayers are with you and DH.
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  • My heart goes out to you and your DH. I am so truly sorry to hear this news. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I am so so sorry that this is happening.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  If you need anything at all, please don't hesitate to page me.
  • I cried when I read this. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you know that you are in our prayers.
  • I'm so so sorry, I can't believe this happened.  I've been thinking about you all day.  It's really unfair.  Please know that we are thinking about you here and I hope they are able to give you some answers with the RPL.  Big huge hugs.
  • I am so sorry for your loss, i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers
  • I'm so so sorry!! Life is so unfair!! :::BIG HUGS:::
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  • I am so deeply sorry, Kelly!  My heart just stopped when I saw your news.  I was praying for you and a positive update.  Please know that you'll continue to be on my heart and in my prayers.

    If you would like to keep in touch, I'm here for you... mandy_dl@hotmail.com

    {BIG HUGS}

  • I am so sorry for your loss and that you have to go through this again. I hope you get some answers soon. My thoughts are will you and your husband.
  • I am so very sorry. Will they do another u/s before your D&C?

    Big Huge Hugs to you.

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  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.  I wish there was something I could say.  Please know that your little angel is well loved up there with the rest of our little angels, and it will always be with you in spirit.  All of my thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband.
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  • Oh Sweetheart!  I was so hoping this was the one for you!  Be good to yourself and make sure you and your DH take as much time as you need to heal.  We love you and will be here waiting for you when you come back.

     

    ((HUGS))

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  • I put a post on ttcal for you. I am SO SO SO sorry. I cannot believe it. If there is anyway I can support you please let me know. Thinking of you and YH.

    :::HUGS:::?

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  • OH Hun! I am so sorry! ((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))
  • I am so sorry!  {{BIG HUGS}}
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Life is not fair and my thoughts are with you and your husband. =(
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  • words cannot express how sad I feel for you right now. I am so very sorry that you have to go through this. 

     

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  • Oh no!!! I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. ?I hope you get some answers after all the testing. ?Do not lose hope and do not give up. ?((((hugs))))
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  • I am so sorry. Much love to you and your husband.
  • I am sooo sorry. You & DH are in my prayers.
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  • I'm so so sorry... I feel like my hear breaks for you.  I wish you and your dh all the peace and strength in each other you need.  ((HUGS))
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  • Sigh. Life truly is unfair. You will get through this but take as much time as you need and cry and hate life as much as you want. I'm so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry :-(

    (((Big Hugs)))

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  • Oh no, no, no, no. I'm so so sorry and my heart is breaking for you. Life is so unfair. I'll be praying for you.

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  • Left HughugsRight Hug  I'm soo soo sorry.  You and your DH will be in my thoughts and prayers. 
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  • Words can not express how very sorry I am. You are right, life  can be so unfair. I hope you get some answers and your sticky baby soon. BIG hugs to you.

  • Oh, honey, I don't have enough words to tell you how sorry I am. ((big hugs))
  • I am so very sorry....
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  • Oh my gosh!!  I am SO sorry for your loss!!
  • Oh, I'm so so so sorry.  You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers. 

     

    HUGE HUGS.

  • I am so sorry! (((hugs))
  • My heart is breaking for you and your DH.  I am so so so sorry hon.  Like said, words just cannot express how we feel for you.  Take all the time you need, we will be here and will be thinking and praying for you.  BIG HUGS!
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  • I am so so sorry to hear this.... my heart is seriously hurting for you.?

    [BIG HUGS] to you and your DH.....?

  • I am so sorry.  I will keep you and your DH in my prayers.  ((Hugs))
  • GTBrideKC, I am so, so sorry...I have tears in my eyes for you right now...know that I'll be thinking about you, and I hope to see you back here when the time is right for you.
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  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I know there isn't much that can be said, but I've experienced two losses as well and know how devastating it is. My thoughts are with you. ((hugs))
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