I'm cheating on my husband!

butterbeansmama

In my dreams...

We have a mutual friend ( more so dh's friend) that we have known for about 10 years. He doesn't live close by (another state) and we rarely see him (a couple of times a year). He has stayed at our house, etc. DH talks to him all the time. I keep having dreams about him. At least once every couple of weeks and they are very vivid. I have not had sex in any of them, but have come awfully close. What does this all mean?

I love my DH and am very attracted to him. We have not made love in some time now (very busy). Maybe that's it. Maybe I'm craving the closeness we once shared? I will have to make more of an effort with DH and then maybe those dreams will stop.

jaredswife

I bet you are just missing that kind of intimacy.  Sex is much more important that lots of things that we make a priority.  Try setting things aside so you can just spend time with DH.