Anyone else still in denial about being pregnant?

manda_mullins

I am still in denial. I tried so hard today to have fun just browsing Babies R Us but I was totally overwhelmed!

 

I feel like I will give birth and they'll put the baby in my arms and i'll say "Wtf? Where did this come from?"

 

 

Ultrasounds, heartbeat, maybe some flutters....none of it so far makes it real!

htomeo

I am in denial about actual labor.

erbarmywife

When baby is karate chopping you, or head butting your cervix, or sitting on your bladder and whatnot, you'll know it's real, and then you'll want the sucker out of you!

Sorry if that sounds bizzare.

CeltiCutie

ya i def am like "there's a baby in there? are you suuuure?"

Plus i think this 15-18 week time period is the "boring time" the m/s stops, no more cramps really for me, nothing exciting til the big u/s... i actually freak myself out cuz I don't "feel" pregnant.  I keep thinking something is wrong w/ the baby and how would i know since i can't feel it kick, etc... i'm a basket case some hours of the day! lol 

PlannedChaos

We went to BRU for the third time today.  It was the first time I didn't feel overwhelmed.  Frustrated as hell, because DH and I have totally different taste on EVERYTHING, but not overwhelmed.

Plus he kept molesting me in the aisles, which was ANNOYING.

Mrs.Pepin

PlannedChaos:

We went to BRU for the third time today.  It was the first time I didn't feel overwhelmed.  Frustrated as hell, because DH and I have totally different taste on EVERYTHING, but not overwhelmed.

Plus he kept molesting me in the aisles, which was ANNOYING.

LMAO I'm not the only one being molested ::sigh of relief::

CeltiCutie

PlannedChaos:

We went to BRU for the third time today.  It was the first time I didn't feel overwhelmed.  Frustrated as hell, because DH and I have totally different taste on EVERYTHING, but not overwhelmed.

Plus he kept molesting me in the aisles, which was ANNOYING.

 

Eww what's wrong w/  ur DH -molestering in BRU?!!   God, I can sooo see my DH doing that... he molesters when he's bored... lol

Mrs.Pepin

Not in denial, just dredding the hemoroids and giving birth again.  And praying I don't get kidney stones w/ this preg.

hugapin

htomeo:

I am in denial about actual labor.

 

 i hear ya... that is what scares me..

smismar

I'm at the same place you are.  16 weeks and total denial.  I don't "feel" pg (WeverTF that means) and life plugs on as usual except I can't go party and get drunk when my friends invite me out.  I've seen the u/s, heard the HB (and will hear it again tomorrow at my appt).... BUT I have this feeling like they're going to hand me this kid and I won't have the first clue what to do with it and I'm a little worried that I don't feel like I've bonded more with it (or at least the idea of it) already.

rouge411

In one of my classes, there are three girls who are 7-8 months pregnant, and look it. I don't really look it yet, so there's that. And I am really not into looking at baby clothes or paraphernalia... so yeah, I would say there's some denial going on.

The Blue Moon my sister left in my fridge keeps reminding me, though!!

nova@spamcop.net

I was convinced I didn't feel pg for weeks and weeks.  Even after I started feeling the first little kicks, I didn't feel pg.  But after 2-3 weeks of kicks, and finally starting to  show a bump instead of just looking fat, I think it's sinking in.

I think it's a good thing we have 9 months to get used to the idea.  It'll take that long.

LWright

I'm 16 weeks and feel the same one.  On one hand I don't even feel pregnant outside of my clothes getting tight and I just look fat.  I am in denial also bc I just can't cope with having to deal with all of the baby stuff that needs to be bought, coordinating time off and day care....this is just overwhelmin.  Babies R Us also gives me anxiety attacks!!!

inbetween

CeltiCutie:

ya i def am like "there's a baby in there? are you suuuure?"

Plus i think this 15-18 week time period is the "boring time" the m/s stops, no more cramps really for me, nothing exciting til the big u/s... i actually freak myself out cuz I don't "feel" pregnant.  I keep thinking something is wrong w/ the baby and how would i know since i can't feel it kick, etc... i'm a basket case some hours of the day! lol 

Ditto! I worry for at least 5 minutes everyday that something is wrong with the baby. It's the not knowing that kills me! Then at the dr. appointment it either takes the dr. forever to find the heartbeat, or she makes me wait until the very last minute at the dr. appointment. I can not wait for kicks!!