Implantation Spotting and HPTing

MsGMChick

I see someone forgot to close the gate today. Let me fix that for you girls..

scbedi

1Baby4Me:

First off you want to take about being huffy look who's talking like they're still in HS. People are going to back you up. How about you actually explain yourself? I had an honest question. I went to a board where I believed I could find knolwdgable ladies who would understand what I am going through. Someone suggested I google this question. Whats the point of having this board available if ladies are just going to google. I guess I'm not welcome to your little safe haven well you know what?! Everyone deserves a little safe haven!! You think you're the only one who is upset that the prince was born today?? After over a year of trying I finally had a BFP my one and only and in a few short days my baby was taken from me for no frickin reason. Everyone has a right to a safe haven!! So if I did something wrong in asking a question how about you explain yourself and try to be nice. If not you can go screw yourself and never EVER look at my posts again!

I am truly sorry for you loss. Maybe 1st tri would be a better place since they have actually had implantation. Many of us have never, even had implantation, some of us have never successfully ovulated. We have never experienced IB so we can't tell you that it's definitely IB when, honestly, we have no clue what that experience is like.

MsGMChick

1Baby4Me:

I didn't say it wasn't a pregnancy symptom. Obviously I think it is a pregnancy symptom or else I wouldn't ask when is it most accurate to test for pregnancy. I give up. To all the ladies who were kind and helpful ... Thank you. Everyone else ... You can go screw yourselves.

I was very helpful. I schooled you on the accuracy of HPTs at dpos. You're welcome. Now, go pee on something, or don't, because none of us know if you're KU or not. If you spot every.cycle. you're likely not pregnant or not any more than normal at whatever dpo you are. Wait like everyone else. Testing now will not make you more pregnant than you will be in 3 days.  

1Baby4Me

I am sorry for upsetting anyone. I understand that we are all coming from different degrees of difficulty here. I was really just looking to speak with someone who might understand what I'm going through. I really just wanted one person to connect with. I don't feel comfortable in infertility because I don't take medications and I'm not even sure if I have to yet. Still waiting on tests TTC is annoying because people swear they're pregnant 2DPO. I'm obviously not welcome in this group because apparently I didn't ask my question clear enough. 1st tri will probably have a problem because someone will say that forum is only for pregnant women. So you know what? I'm done. I tried this stupid online forum thing and it was a complete disaster.

chickyclg

1Baby4Me:

I am sorry for upsetting anyone. I understand that we are all coming from different degrees of difficulty here. I was really just looking to speak with someone who might understand what I'm going through. I really just wanted one person to connect with. I don't feel comfortable in infertility because I don't take medications and I'm not even sure if I have to yet. Still waiting on tests TTC is annoying because people swear they're pregnant 2DPO. I'm obviously not welcome in this group because apparently I didn't ask my question clear enough. 1st tri will probably have a problem because someone will say that forum is only for pregnant women. So you know what? I'm done. I tried this stupid online forum thing and it was a complete disaster.

Nobody said you weren't welcome, just don't post PG symptoms then ask when to test.  Most of us on this board are victims of "spotting" at some DPO mixed with phantom pregnancy symptoms all while AF is right around the corner.  

1Baby4Me

I don't want to lose hope. It's the worse feeling ever. Everyone keeps asking when we're having kids and they remind me were not getting younger. _ we're 28 and 29 This really is the worse kind of frustration. I've been contiplating telling our family we're having a hard time getting pregnant.

chickyclg

1Baby4Me:

I don't want to lose hope. It's the worse feeling ever. Everyone keeps asking when we're having kids and they remind me were not getting younger. _ we're 28 and 29 This really is the worse kind of frustration. I've been contiplating telling our family we're having a hard time getting pregnant.

We came out about our IF and people stopped asking, and we are only 25 with a ton of issues, see siggy. Maybe you should look into an RE, you will get a DX and a plan for future treatment. I would still be lost if I were in the care of an OB.

sueann911

1Baby4Me:

I didn't say it wasn't a pregnancy symptom. Obviously I think it is a pregnancy symptom or else I wouldn't ask when is it most accurate to test for pregnancy. I give up. To all the ladies who were kind and helpful ... Thank you. Everyone else ... You can go screw yourselves.

I wasn't rude. I pointed you to a blog that literally answers your question, regardless of how many months you've been TTC. In that blog you will learn the basics of charting, temping, likelihood of IB and hpt accuracy by DPO.

I did not question your IF status. But generally, the women on here aren't ignorant enough to ask about IB because they've been TTC for so long and have educated themselves enough to know its a question that literally can not be answered. Thus, the reason I sent you to the blog so you could educate yourself. We're not going to spoon feed you. That's not what we do.

Feel free to stick around but I suggest you readjust your attitude.

NewMrs07

To the original poster (if you're still reading after all the sh!t people posted here), yes, IB could be a sign of pregnancy. Both me and my cousin spotted briefly for 1 day or so and ended up being pregnant. I also spot before my period for 1-2 days and since my luteal phase is short (10-11dpo), when I had IB at 11dpo I thought my period was on its way. The spotting was brownish and only when I wiped. A day before at 10dpo I had a huge temperature dip (I was charting), I tested at 11dpo and got a BFN, then I spotted and then, suddenly, my temp went up drastically at 14dpo and I tested again and got a BFP at 14dpo.

So maybe it's your period and maybe it's pregnancy. Unfortunately, all you can do is wait and it's so nerve-wrecking. Good luck though  

1Baby4Me

Thank you. So after possible IB three days later you got a BFP. That's awesome. Congratulations! I use to BBT but hubby said I started obsessing over every temperature so we're giving that a break. I was 9dpo yesterday so I'll wait to test at 12dpo. How far along are you now?

megs3084

1Baby4Me:

Thank you. So after possible IB three days later you got a BFP. That's awesome. Congratulations! I use to BBT but hubby said I started obsessing over every temperature so we're giving that a break. I was 9dpo yesterday so I'll wait to test at 12dpo. How far along are you now?

If you're not bbt, how do you know when you ovulated?

1Baby4Me

I check CM and CP

ttuprincess

IntuitiveBlue:

1Baby4Me:

First off you want to take about being huffy look who's talking like they're still in HS. People are going to back you up. How about you actually explain yourself? I had an honest question. I went to a board where I believed I could find knolwdgable ladies who would understand what I am going through. Someone suggested I google this question. Whats the point of having this board available if ladies are just going to google. I guess I'm not welcome to your little safe haven well you know what?! Everyone deserves a little safe haven!! You think you're the only one who is upset that the prince was born today?? After over a year of trying I finally had a BFP my one and only and in a few short days my baby was taken from me for no frickin reason. Everyone has a right to a safe haven!! So if I did something wrong in asking a question how about you explain yourself and try to be nice. If not you can go screw yourself and never EVER look at my posts again!

FIRST OFF, you need to calm the EFF down.

No one tells KatiB to go screw herself.

You're the one acting like you're in high school. No, you're acting like you're in middle school.  We don't know you, you're not following the etiquette of the board, and maybe today we don't have the patience to put up with yet another fishing/driveby/idiotic post.

You picked the wrong person to yell at - many of us look up to KatiB, and I for one know that she knows her stuff and has offered countless days of support for all us regs here.  We love her, and we're not going to listen to you hate on her.

If you can't behave, then please leave.

well said. I'll second this.  

 OP, if you don't want honest feedback or you can't follow board protocol, you should leave. 

RunCC37

Who the hell is this chick b!tchin on our Katib?!

Listen, no need to be so combative. This board is a supportive place. Up until a little while ago, it was mostly drama free too. What is wrong with this board lately?! Gees, I'm sorry I opened this thread...