DH and I have been married for almost three years now and I have been working hard to get over my fears about being a Mom. It's a big deal! Just this passed week, it finally clicked: I'm ready... I'm really, officially ready.
For other reasons though, my hubby and I are going to wait for next spring to start trying. I only recently got a full time job after finishing grad school, so I'd love to have a year under my belt before starting. So now I'll just be stalking the boards... living vicariously through you other ladies!! Also, I have an IUD in, so there won't really be any "whoopsies" or any "not NOT trying..." I just wanted to share my excitement over this emotional milestone :-D
Re: Waiting for the right time....
Congrats on finally knowing you're ready! I'm in a similar boat, I can't wait but DH and I just got married and we know that we will appreciate waiting and enjoying the "just us" time, and we're both fairly fresh out of grad school (DH graduated in December, I graduated in May) so we would like to save up some. So here I am, lurking boards and living vicariously through other mamas haha!
Welcome and enjoy!
Congrats on graduating! I'm glad to see someone else in the same boat... such a tough thing being an adult, delaying your 'wants' until it's an appropriate time. Oh well...
We're in a similar situation married 4 years, totally babies on the brain but due to life situations we're waiting til early spring to TTC. Also with BOTB I also obsess about all thing baby. My ovaries/hormones are dictating things now, I have no control.
BFP 6/15/14 EDD: 2/24/15