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I love my OBGYN

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Just saying.  Last week I had to go to CHOP and while most people were nice, some were a little too harsh for me.  For example, they were scanning my baby's spine and talking about how they couldn't find 6.  So I am freaking out, not only does she have a major heart problem, but she has a spine problem.  I asked the 2 women who were doing the scan and they said that they can't talk about it and I would find out later.  I lost it and said please just tell me what is wrong with the baby.  The one lady looks at me and said "you know that there is something seriously wrong with this baby, that is why you are at CHOP."  Nice.  She left, the other lady said not to worry, its not a big deal, the problem that they found is something that alot of people live with and do not even know about it.  Today I go to my dr. who said she doesn't even see a problem with the spine, it looks fine and that her face looks fine, and her hands and feet are fine.  And she just makes me feel better.  She is also up to 3lbs 1oz. :)  Little girl is getting stronger.  I can feel her kicking more.  She still needs the surgery, but knowing that everyone is praying for her and pulling for her makes me feel so much better.  I just applied to stay at the Ronald McDonald house in Philly too.  So the plan is in place.
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  • Citygirl1015Citygirl1015 member
    I can't believe that nurse was so cruel, where is her bedside manner?! I'm so glad that your doctor didn't find a problem, and that she is gaining weight and getting stronger. She's a little fighter!

    Yay about the Ronald McDonald house!
    TTC #1 since Oct 2009, Dx: Unexplained Infertility
    HSG: Right tube all clear, left tube inconclusive
    3 failed Clomid Cylces
    4/5 lap revealed blocked left tube, but right tube is open
    April/May- 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #1= CANCELLED left ovary ovulating
    June 1- 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #1 = BFN
    June 28- 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #2 =BFP!
    7/12 Beta #1= 14 Beta #2= >5 Chemical Pregnancy :(
    July-Nov long break to recover emotionally and financially
    Nov 24- 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #3= BFN
    Jan 22- Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI# 4 = CANCELLED no response on right
    IVF #1- Start stims 4/7, ER 4/20, 21R, 14F, 6 frosties, ET 4/25, 2 embryos transferred= BFN :(
    FET #1- June 2012, Lurpon starts 5/27- CANCELLED
    FET #1 take 2- August 2012, delayed until Sept-CANCELLED
    FET #1 take 3- ET 10/11, 2 embryos transferred,= BFFN
    FET #2- Transfer 12/4--Cancelled, no embies survived thaw :(
    Next steps-- IVF #2 with new RE in March
    HOLY SURPRISE BFP 2/15/13!!!! Beta 1- 286, Beta 2- 782, First Ultrasound 2/25- baby in uterus & all looks good!


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  • BootsOrHeartsBootsOrHearts member

    I'm glad she's doing well and gaining weight! People can be so insensitive, honestly! Like it isn't hard enough to deal with everything you're going through.

    Huge hugs!

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  • BzeetyDBzeetyD member

    Oh that's just terrible, her attitude and what she said. I think I would have burst into tears right there. I've run across people like that and they are the worst!

    Glad that your OB is taking care to make you feel less anxious and happy to hear you're feeling confident about your girl's movements and strength. 

    Thinking of you! Happy that you have your plan in place. Knowing the plan always helps to ease the mind.

    BzeetyD = 38, Mr. BzeetyD = 44 together 12/02 married 9/08
    TTC #1 since 1/10
    DX: Unexplained/??? MFI issues

    Our lil' lost sparks:
    5w3d loss 7/30/10 - EDD March 2011
    8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
    8w3d loss 8/2/12 - EDD March 2013
    4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013

    Long story: trying on our own + testing testing testing with 6 rounds of Clomid, more testing, injectables + TI, laparoscopy - one tube blocked, 2 IUIs with Follistim...BFNs.
    RPL testing all normal, Karyotyping normal

    Moving on to IVF.

    IVF #1 April 2012 = BFN, IVF #2 June 2012 = BFP. U/S 7/23 = saw heartbeat but measuring behind. Follow up U/S on 7/30 - no heartbeat. D&C 8/2. Trisomy 12. IVF #3 Oct 2012 = Chemical Pregnancy

    Phone consult with CCRM on 12/12/12 - ODWU 1/4/13 - both tubes clear(!) - AFC 24, AMH 3.2, FSH 9.6, LH 5.4, E2 25. DH has high frag rate but improved!
    IVF #4 March 2013 CCRM. EP protocol w/ Menopur, Gonal-F & Dexamethasone. ER 3/29 & IMSI, PICSI. 43R 13M 10F 6blasts bio'd. CCS testing reveals 3 normals!!!
    FET 5/31/13 of 1 4AA blast - thawed and expanded. 4dp5dt BFP.
    Beta 9dp5dt = 181, 11dp5dt = 427. 1st u/s showed a healthy heartbeat! EDD 2/16/14

    After 4 years of hoping and heartbreak, our sweet little bean was born on 2/19/14
    We are so in love with her.

    "I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it."

    Everybody is welcome!!!
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