~~Wednesday Roll Call~~

PrettyAccountant

Hello Lovely Ladies!
It's Wednesday again and time for a roll call on what is going on with you or a vent session - you pick!

Hope everyone is hanging in there. Hugs to everyone.

Rachel

PrettyAccountant

PAIF Update
Well, clearly my body sucks at getting pregnant and is showing it isn't very good once it is pregnant. My blood pressure has been all over the place and I might be showing signs of pre-eclampsia. At first my drs said they wouldn't let me go past my due date but now they are saying they won't let me even get to my due date. My body sucks. I feel like I failed my triplets and am failing this little one. I know she is term enough to be Ok if born but I haven't even reached 35 weeks.
On another note - a coworker who found out we did IVF had the nerve to tell me yesterday "see that is why you don't mess with God and do IVF. If you were meant to have a baby, you would get pregnant on your own. Think about your triplets and what happened to them". I fired her yesterady. I blamed a screw up from another staff member on her and fired her. Yes, that was a crappy thing to do on my part but she should keep her comments to herself. God still loves me even though I did IVF. And I don't feel bad about getting rid of her - no remorse what so ever!

liz4paws

PA, I am sorry about the health issues. I hope things bounce back. And I would have wanted to throat punch your friend and said "See? This is why you don't say dumb &*(& to me like that"

And on that note, I want to say EFF YOU, BUMP. TB changes have put the ticker back into my siggy from when I was pregnant with our m/c baby. And guess what? It has now reminded me that today was supposed to be v-day. But it's not. My baby is gone. No V-day for me. Cruel bump!!!!!!! I honestly want to cry now!

If anyone knows how to fix this, please tell me. I really didn't want this today! 

kflynn81

I'd have

PrettyAccountant said:

PAIF Update
Well, clearly my body sucks at getting pregnant and is showing it isn't very good once it is pregnant. My blood pressure has been all over the place and I might be showing signs of pre-eclampsia. At first my drs said they wouldn't let me go past my due date but now they are saying they won't let me even get to my due date. My body sucks. I feel like I failed my triplets and am failing this little one. I know she is term enough to be Ok if born but I haven't even reached 35 weeks.
On another note - a coworker who found out we did IVF had the nerve to tell me yesterday "see that is why you don't mess with God and do IVF. If you were meant to have a baby, you would get pregnant on your own. Think about your triplets and what happened to them". I fired her yesterady. I blamed a screw up from another staff member on her and fired her. Yes, that was a crappy thing to do on my part but she should keep her comments to herself. God still loves me even though I did IVF. And I don't feel bad about getting rid of her - no remorse what so ever!

I'd have fired her too what a bish!!!

kflynn81

liz4paws said:

PA, I am sorry about the health issues. I hope things bounce back. And I would have wanted to throat punch your friend and said "See? This is why you don't say dumb &*(& to me like that"

And on that note, I want to say EFF YOU, BUMP. TB changes have put the ticker back into my siggy from when I was pregnant with our m/c baby. And guess what? It has now reminded me that today was supposed to be v-day. But it's not. My baby is gone. No V-day for me. Cruel bump!!!!!!! I honestly want to cry now!

If anyone knows how to fix this, please tell me. I really didn't want this today! 

Sorry Liz
I don't know how to fix it....I'm not very bump savvy

kflynn81

Thi has been a tough week....but after my wtf it's getting better. My BIL , the family favorite, is getting married Sunday. Starting today there is something planned with the family as if the wedding date is not enough. I'm not going to anything except the rehearsal dinner and I'm not thrilled about that either...they should be fortunate I'm even coming on sunday! The rehearsal is Friday at 7:30 with dinner to follow so I have to wait til like 9 for dinner screw that. Then I have to work Monday so I told MH were leaving at 10.....I don't care if they're mad....don't get married on Sunday

liz4paws

kflynn81 said:

Thi has been a tough week....but after my wtf it's getting better. My BIL , the family favorite, is getting married Sunday. Starting today there is something planned with the family as if the wedding date is not enough. I'm not going to anything except the rehearsal dinner and I'm not thrilled about that either...they should be fortunate I'm even coming on sunday! The rehearsal is Friday at 7:30 with dinner to follow so I have to wait til like 9 for dinner screw that. Then I have to work Monday so I told MH were leaving at 10.....I don't care if they're mad....don't get married on Sunday

Big hugs, I'm glad you feel a bit better after the WTF. I hope that everything turns out better than expected at the wedding activities.

BeeBee08

PA - I would have fired her too.  No hesitation, so good job.

Liz -  I am so sorry. I don't know why thebump screwed with a good thing.  This new format sucks huge hairy balls and the fact that all our signatures are outdated sucks too.

AFM, today is day 9 of stims and there is no end in sight.  This is all happening so slowly compared to previous cycles.  I feel like monkey poop and I just want this to be over.

 

 

DoublePortion

Hugs all around!
PA, I can't believe she had the nerve to say that. Now that she's unemployed maybe she'll have plenty of time to think before she speaks.
Liz, I hope the ticker goes away soon! I'm so sorry you were reminded of what could have been.
Kflynn, sorry for the family drama. I hope it's over before you know it!

DoublePortion

And yes, TB does suck. I don't understand the complete overhaul? Why not periodically make small changes? A little change here and there wouldn't be so confusing. Now I have no siggy data, only a pic I deleted months ago.

hmz819

PA...I can't believe she had the nerve to say that to you!  I am so sorry you had to hear that.  God doesn't love any of us less just because we have to do IVF.

 

AFM...starting to have consults this month to get this show back on the road.  I hope we find an RE that we like and feel comfortable with.  I honestly think I have more anxiety over picking the right clinic than going through another cycle. 

BoogieMonster629

I don't know if anyone is going to read this or if its too late but I still can't get on to ttgp. I've logged out, closed, deleted cookies, blah blah blah and still says undergoing maintenance.

STBMrsMiller

BoogieMonster629:

I don't know if anyone is going to read this or if its too late but I still can't get on to ttgp. I've logged out, closed, deleted cookies, blah blah blah and still says undergoing maintenance.

I also still can't access TTGP, but I'm mobile.

I would like to second the navigation concern that there was no way to get back to the main board page from a thread.

Bump Jackie

Awesome feedback -  I will share with everyone!