DS1 recently transferred from his public preschool where he started in a special needs- then a 50/50 inclusion/and finally a gen ed room. So it was certainly no big secret with the other parents that he is on the spectrum since either their kids were on the spectrum or they had agreed to have their kid in an inclusion room. Now we are in more of a typical gen ed situation where some parents may have no idea that he is on the spectrum. Im not sure how open I should be with the info. It is not a secret from DS- he hasn't really asked any questions about asd but the word is spoken in his presence plenty and I answer anything he asks. Still I don't know these women well and what might be said to their own children and then used someday against DS- IM sure you can see why I want to consider how careful I should be with who I share this info with.
We have a play date coming up and the Mom wants to change the day to the day/time of our aba therapy, which would be great since we love having play dates during therapy but I don't know how to broach the subject of why DS has a play therapist along with. To make it a little more complicated there is a bit of a language barrier- she speaks with a heavy (asian) accent and I don't speak her first language at all. So we have worked out the details of our plan by text. She seems really nice and our boys like each other. I feel like such a nit wit having to ask her to repeat herself or not understanding her- wish I spoke another language- though it wouldn't help since it is unlikely I could learn every language out there and I am having this difficulty with at least two of the moms I have met at this school.
thanks for the advice- I might take it down later since I seem to have an internet fan right now, sort of creepy
Re: How to tell another parent who your aba is