We're both going to be working FT and I know so many successful CD families have someone at home.
I feel like we have an advantage because my sister is going to be responsible for the child care and she has expressed that she has no problem CDing.
Still nervous. Tell me your success stories!
Re: Working?
It's not difficult at all. If anything, I like knowing part of my hard earned money isn't being thrown away several times a day!
We have a routine that helps. I suggest having a stash large enough to at least get you to every other day, if not three days during the work week. I put a load of diapers in when I get home from work, hang them up in the morning before I leave, and dh and I sit down to stuff them the next night while we're winding down watching TV. It's kind of an ongoing process, but being that it's only a small step at a time it's really very easy. I usually only have to wash Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday thanks to a larger stash. It helps tremendously having a caregiver willing to be on board! My mother is awesome, and even sprays off the diapers for me before they go in the pail, so that takes a LOT off my shoulders and makes it possible for me to only have to wash once during the work week with no stink issues.
There's no reason to be nervous, the biggest part of cloth diapering (whether you're a SAHM or working mom) is getting a routine down. Once you've got that, you're in the clear :-)
I don't have someone at home, DD goes to a center. They were on board with CDing, and when I showed them what they look like they were REALLY on board with CDing. We had some issues at first where I had to send with 2-3 extra pairs of pants and sometimes she'd still come home in daycare pants, but it was a learning process for them. They got better at it, and then she was always coming home in the same outfit she went in.
Then she started coming home in daycare pants again so I had to tweak the absorbency, and we found what worked. It can be harder to trouble shoot issues when you're not there all day to monitor, but we have no problems CDing while DH and I work full time. Heck, I have 2 jobs. It's just leaving most of the diapering to somebody else, so it's dependant mainly on their success.
We've made it easy for them (don't have to spray diapers, just put the poopy diapers in the bag and I deal with it at home, I do all the washing, send only pockets - no prefolds) but our pockets all have snaps which aren't as easy for a new person to learn as aplix, but they've all managed just fine.
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It's really encouraging that you are all able to do this and have found routines. We are very excited to begin.