::Hope4Twins2015::

PrimRoseMama

Just in case you DD...

PrimRoseMama:

Hope4twins2015:

Prim, why are you so rude to everyone on this blog. Who cares how much she has commented or congratulated people. Maybe she has a job and posting on a bullshit blog several times a day isn't her first priority like it is to you. You're one angry unhappy person who talks down and bad to people to make yourself feel better. It's pretty sad! Bet your one fat nasty military dependapotomis *** that has nothing better to do. Need someone else to pick on?

Wow, I have no idea what a "military dependapotomis ***" is but thank you for your moving summary of what you think of me. I'll be sure to go cry in a corner because some sniveling newbie is upset about me and called me names. Yeah....

So what you are saying is: giving support, condolences is not high on OP's priority list? Building a community and getting to know others is too much of a hassle for her? Well that is just tough cookies.

Also, because you seem to be a] lacking in intelligence b] lacking in the reading comprehension skills and c] bent on being ugly when you are supposedly criticizing me for being nasty. I'll use small words and break it down for you real simple like...

It's been explained that "being busy" is the most bullshyt reason ever to choose not to contribute to the community. Why? Two reasons:

1] There are more than just me that are active, engaged SAHM with children that have activities throughout the day. Our job is demanding while pregnant. We still manage to do it throughout the day AND contribute to this community. I, personally, feel its because we actually care about others and want to help. We are also awesome. Two things [caring about people outside of ourselves and general awesomeness] that you and OP clearly lack.

2] There are those that have demanding jobs outside the home [etoille is one off the top of my head and Vastulas as well]. Because they care to build a community [there is that pesky looking outside of yourself, not being a selfish AW thing again, drat!] they show up. They are busy as fcuk.

Moral of the story: having a job inside or outside the home doesn't exempt you from being a considerate, caring person willing to support other people for 9 months during pregnancy. End of story.

If you don't have time for us then please explain why we should take ANY of our valuable time to congratulate you on birthing your kid? Why is your time supposedly more valuable than ours? It's not and selfish AW's have no place here. GTFO.

So, you can kindly go eff yourself with your sanctimonious crap, name calling and presumptions about my character. Do you feel better now that you told me off? I hope so because its not going to ruin my life, or even my minute. Folks like you are a waste of time, oxygen and energy.

So go on and spout your angry bullshyt. I promise you are only spinning your wheels and making yourself look bad.

Smooches,
Prim

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PrimRoseMama:

Hope4twins2015:

Cinz777 congrats on your little one. Thanks for sharing your story even though there's always nasty unhappy people in this world I'm sure you will teach your child to be a better person than they are. Take care.

I'm fabulously happy for my friends when they give birth, Thank You.

Please explain how your display of name calling or OP's reaction [crazy and ugly as well] gives anyone reasonable hope that either of you will raise children that have the ability to exhibit empathy, nonselfish behavior or social skills? Cause' I say just judging on your limited communication and social skills from your limited posting habits that your kids are screwed in those departments. Just putting that out there.

Feel sorry for my kids. They will learn the value of speaking up, reading comprehension, building community, wit , humor and looking outside yourself. The sheer mother.f.ucking horror!

military dependapotomis bitchkisses,
Prim

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Lets chat some more about how I'm so nasty to people hmm?

[Deleted User]

What in the flucking fluck. People are crazy this week and if this newb would lurk a little longer she'd realize that you aren't military...unless I missed something?

Also, what is up with people white knighting? We're all adults here...no need for help on the adult bump playground.

dinomama13

We seriously need to make some kind of "Prim GIF" like the "July '13 made me cry" one LOL Oh Prim, you dependapotamis..whatever the fack that is? lol

I'm mobile and can't adequately use a GIF so this will have to do haha C;

PrimRoseMama

Asbromle:

What in the flucking fluck. People are crazy this week and if this newb would lurk a little longer she'd realize that you aren't military...unless I missed something?

Also, what is up with people white knighting? We're all adults here...no need for help on the adult bump playground.

Nope, not military at all. Haha! I think a "dependotomis" is someone who is dependent on others? I'm really not sure, but I'm just itching for this Hope4Twins to post anywhere again.

She's on my post it and Ill be sure to be on the Welcome Wagon wherever she might pop up. You know, because she's been so sweet to me!

PrimRoseMama

leahaziele91:

We seriously need to make some kind of "Prim GIF" like the "July '13 made me cry" one LOL Oh Prim, you dependapotamis..whatever the fack that is? lol

I'm mobile and can't adequately use a GIF so this will have to do haha C;

Omg I think I can make one haha. I have to do it on my PC but I have a good picture in mind. :P

BlueJewelM

Hmmmmm....lurking..,,

I don't understand the military reference. Does she think military wives are fat and lazy?

Because I can't believe "fat military dependapotamus" or however you spell it, is a term of endearment she has for military families?

Shame, shame.

PrimRoseMama

I really want to play with the animated GIF but I have to learn how to do it. For now this is for lulz.

Edit: holy shiit that was huge! Edit to resize!

Clyde013

I'm a newbie here and I've found prim's posts to be very helpful and insightful. I just joined a month ago but I really wish I would have joined earlier in
My pregnancy since I have already benefited a ton from the community and could have used the support earlier on in pregnancy which was a real rollercoaster ride. Anyway my point is that the older users have contributed a lot to J13 and there is a ton of useful info on it because of this. So I could understand why they would get frusterated when newbies myself included take more than they give.

karirlaw

Omg this person needs to get a life. And let the record show I work a full time job and am pg with number four. Still contribute and have time to care about other people. Fluck off random lady. Prim I think you're great.

Stina2012

BlueJewelM:

Hmmmmm....lurking..,, I don't understand the military reference. Does she think military wives are fat and lazy? Because I can't believe "fat military dependapotamus" or however you spell it, is a term of endearment she has for military families? Shame, shame.

Yeah, I think she went there. What a bish. Military families sacrifice quite a lot thank you very much! 

sdtchica13

Whoa...chick needs a Valium...bad. 

kalemi

Yea....the military reference is thrown around too often. It's because a lot of spouses don't work, have a lot of kids, are usually overweight, have nothing better to do with their time then sit around and worry about others, and are just overly sensitive about everything. There's actually an entire facebook page dedicated to it. Which, usually the people calling others "dependa-whatever" of any sort, are generally the ones who are overly sensitive....which as you can see, she is lol.

PrimRoseMama

kalemi:

Yea....the military reference is thrown around too often. It's because a lot of spouses don't work, have a lot of kids, are usually overweight, have nothing better to do with their time then sit around and worry about others, and are just overly sensitive about everything. There's actually an entire facebook page dedicated to it. Which, usually the people calling others "dependa-whatever" of any sort, are generally the ones who are overly sensitive....which as you can see, she is lol.

Hmmm, well that is unforunate that there are people who fit this stereotype, but its really disrespectful to Military Families. I have nothing but respect for women who marry into the Military Life. I would love the travel, but not the worry.

I wonder if Hope4Twins2015 is a military?

I mean, I know I can be sensitive but who knew that the expression of "who gives a rat's bootie" about someone's birth story (that I don't even know yo) would get me called over sensitive? What is really funny about it, to me maybe by myself, is that either I'm a callous, heinous fat cow-biitch or an overly sensitive person that picks at people.

Not that I look for people to kiss my butt, but I do appreciate the love/appreciation from lurkers above. I'm just LOL at the extremes.  

jennipalmer

Silv3rlining:

BlueJewelM:

Hmmmmm....lurking..,, I don't understand the military reference. Does she think military wives are fat and lazy? Because I can't believe "fat military dependapotamus" or however you spell it, is a term of endearment she has for military families? Shame, shame.

I'm guessing that's what she's going with. As it is often difficult for military spouses to maintain careers with the constant moving around, many of us choose to SAHM (or SAHW). As an Army wife I think she is the one being rude even making a reference to that. (Spouses/children are considered dependents to the soldier, not in a derogatory way). But not all spouses are overweight or lazy. Many of us are actually heavily involved with volunteer work (and even concerned about our physical appearance, ie exercise and take care of our bodies)

I will say (though I am mostly a lurker), that most of Prim's posts have been very helpful over the last 9 months. It amuses me all the newbs (and even lurkers) who take offense because they haven't taken time to participate on the boards to see the same questions/answers over and over again....

You tell her...mean bish!!! Prim is straight forward and honest about stuff, getting a bit pissy about people who just start a page to announce birth or ask why wooohaaa hurts is warranted. I am all for commiserating but where were the in Nov when all we had to talk to was each other because we couldn't tell people yet for miscarriage fears!!

But if a have a problem with one or all of us on a board fine but to group someone or guess anything makes them look ignorant!!

Sincerely,

Proud Navy Wife

 

kalemi

AFwifelife:

kalemi:

Yea....the military reference is thrown around too often. It's because a lot of spouses don't work, have a lot of kids, are usually overweight, have nothing better to do with their time then sit around and worry about others, and are just overly sensitive about everything. There's actually an entire facebook page dedicated to it. Which, usually the people calling others "dependa-whatever" of any sort, are generally the ones who are overly sensitive....which as you can see, she is lol.

::lurking::

This is definitely not true.  I also think this is rude but guess I'm just being overly sensitive. 

I didn't mean there are a lot but that's the typical stereotype wives seem to get grouped with...or that I've been grouped with anyway. When I worked, people just didn't get it. Apparently, because my husband's active duty, I should be excited to start a family asap,  just sit at home and not contribute financially. The majority of wives I know have degrees or are in school, have jobs, and don't have kids. I didn't mean to state that I think that way of wives, because I definitely don't. I should've worded it differently. I wasn't meaning to state that all wives are like that, or even half of them are like that. I was giving a portion of the definition of the "dependa-" term. Of course, there's more to the term depending on the context. I just giving examples of what would being a "dependa" would consist of.

 

kalemi

PrimRoseMama:

kalemi:

Yea....the military reference is thrown around too often. It's because a lot of spouses don't work, have a lot of kids, are usually overweight, have nothing better to do with their time then sit around and worry about others, and are just overly sensitive about everything. There's actually an entire facebook page dedicated to it. Which, usually the people calling others "dependa-whatever" of any sort, are generally the ones who are overly sensitive....which as you can see, she is lol.

Hmmm, well that is unforunate that there are people who fit this stereotype, but its really disrespectful to Military Families. I have nothing but respect for women who marry into the Military Life. I would love the travel, but not the worry.

I wonder if Hope4Twins2015 is a military?

I mean, I know I can be sensitive but who knew that the expression of "who gives a rat's bootie" about someone's birth story (that I don't even know yo) would get me called over sensitive? What is really funny about it, to me maybe by myself, is that either I'm a callous, heinous fat cow-biitch or an overly sensitive person that picks at people.

Not that I look for people to kiss my butt, but I do appreciate the love/appreciation from lurkers above. I'm just LOL at the extremes.  

 

I would assume so if she's aware of the term. I haven't met many people outside of the military lifestyle that actually know what it means. The spouses who fit the "dependa" profile are far less then just normal spouses.

People are crazy. I think they assume that because it's the internet, they should automatically get positive feedback. It's always entertaining to see people get their panties in a knot because someone was "rude" to them and then, in turn, that same person just completely flies off the handle.

larthawyn

BetsyD2010:

Team Prim!

Lets get tshirts made!  ...... or at least a badge thingy for our signatures. :-) 

giraffeluvspi

PrimRoseMama:

I really want to play with the animated GIF but I have to learn how to do it. For now this is for lulz. Edit: holy shiit that was huge! Edit to resize!

LOVE!!!

I seriously think we all need July '13 "Oh yeah? We have Prim!" badges! I guess that might make us all Prim-dependapotamuses, though. 

 

PrimRoseMama

ChrissieMeas:

PrimRoseMama:

I really want to play with the animated GIF but I have to learn how to do it. For now this is for lulz.

Edit: holy shiit that was huge! Edit to resize!

LOVE!!!

I seriously think we all need July '13 "Oh yeah? We have Prim!" badges! I guess that might make us all Prim-dependapotamuses, though. 

 

I love this board! Y'all always make me smile.