Intro/Nervous

BGrahl90

Hi All!

I just had my first bfp this morning.... I haven't even told my husband yet. I'm honestly nervous to. We just opened up a business in March and we have a lot riding on it. We were "planning" on waiting until the end of the year to see how the business was going before we tried for a second child. Our son will be 2 in August. :-)  

I plan on telling him when "the time is right." But I just don't know when that will be. The end of this sales week? Next? I'm a little afraid for what he will say..... If he takes it negatively it could effect the business greatly(it is a sales room and he is the energy for the new employees).

 I've been sitting here all day trying to figure out how I feel about everything. This has made me feel guilty. I love my son now and can't wait for him to have a sibling to play with. I am honestly just so nervous about our business. Bringing another little one into this world will mean a lot for us. A new place to live(maybe buying our first house?), A new car, Paying off lots of debts, I gave up my insurance when we started this business.... etc. Even as I type all of this, it seems selfish not to be more excited about the pregnancy. There's never a perfect time to get pregnant.... and even if we're not completely ready right NOW, you are pregnant for 9 months right? Time to get my butt into gear. AND tell my hubby. Here goes....

 

-Sorry for the rant!!! 

BGrahl90

Thank you! I'm pretty positive he wouldn't be upset with me, just nervous about how it will all work out. 

marisha1021

We never know how it'll work out, even when planned!
The timing couldn't have been worse with DD, but it all worked out and we have gummy smiles starting our day. As will you. Let us know what he says.

marisha1021

... And congrats!

BabiesFTW

Congrats on the bfp and good luck with the husband. Like you said, there's no perfect time. Hopefully everything will turn out great!
If your husband lets it affect his attitude at work that's on him, not you.