First Day Back at Work

rjeller32

So backstory, I started work today, and our daycare is my aunt three houses down.

And DH is working nights. So I took the girls to daycare at 7:30, told him he should play with them for a few hours before he has to go to work, after he sleeps in a little. I could be a b!tch and make him keep the girls until he has to go to work (from 4pm-1am or 2am).

So, work was going great, and my boss let me go home to feed DD2 (EBF), and have lunch.  I walked in the door, to see DH, lazing about, with nothing done. I held in my frustration, walked over to my aunts, fed DD2 and left.

Came home after work, got the girls, and called DH at work. He decided not to take them at all, or clean, and left the laptop wide open, with some cartoon porn playing, which DD1 ran to watch, only because it was a cartoon. 

Ugh. I mean, it hasn't even been one day, and DH is acting like he will be allowed to never see the girls, sit his lazy arse on the couch and watch porn. I mean, IRL porn is awkward, but watching Jasmine get nailed by Aladdin is just beyond me.

I am done now. 

Divallyn

Ugh, sorry

Maybe he just decided to take advantage because its the first day?  

rjeller32

Hopefully that's all it was. But man, it was frustrating. I really don't care what he does in his free time with the computer, but I just don't want it on when our 2 year old comes home.

I know it was most likely an honest mistake, but sheesh.

If it isn't just a first day thing, I am nipping it in the bud ASAP. I am no house b!tch haha.