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shelly2314shelly2314 member
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Well, Dr called. Wish I could say it was good news. They actually called about 4 hours ago, but I've just been able to log in to the site. I don't even know how I feel right now except empty and sad and then like I've failed my DW. She swears I have not, but I can't help but feel like something is wrong with me. The Dr has no idea why I got a BFP on my home test and then the blood test was a no go. This sucks

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  • ATXmommasATXmommas member
    Aw, I'm so, so sorry.  Every BFN I experienced was devastating.  I imagine it's even more difficult after thinking you were going to receive good news.  I always took a day or two to be upset, but tried to get in a positive mindset moving into the next cycle.  Hoping you will receive your good news soon.
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  • firstcomeslove2013firstcomeslove2013 member

    I am so sorry to hear your news! Take care of yourself and your DW during this time and regroup for another try.

     

     

     

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  • wishing4babydustwishing4babydust
    I'm so sorry to hear that. What a tremendous let down. Wishing you comfort and much luck for the future. <3
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  • DisneyMamaToBeTTCDisneyMamaToBeTTC member
    I mostly lurk on this board, but I just wanted to say I'm sorry to hear this. I actually had this happen to me too. I had thought I tested the trigger out and then got a positive but it ended up a BFN. Best of luck next cycle.
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  • JazibelJazibel member
    Shelly2314 so sorry to hear this news, I'm sending you and your wife warm thoughts.
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  • keepsawaythenargleskeepsawaythenargles member
    :( I'm sorry Shelly
    M: 25  DW: 26
    Married 5/31/13
    TTC #1
    Lesbian mamas to our fur babies
    11/13 - Waiting for test results to get the party started!

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  • mollykelleymollykelley member

    I'm so sorry Shelly.

    My RE was very quick to warn me about a "chemical pregnancy" that can show up as a positive HPT but then not come out high enough on the beta. I'm not sure if that is what this was for you, but it is good to know that it can happen. This is why I stopped using HPTs all together and waited for the beta only so I could be sure of a BFN or BFP. Those days of waiting are killer. It was hard to stay away from HPTs but worth it in the end. 

    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
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  • shelly2314shelly2314 member
    I'm not sure if that's what it is either...I wasn't really in the conversational mood when my RE delivered the news. Thank you for letting me know about "chemical pregnancies" though. Whenever we get to try again, I will just have to wait it out.

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  • mollykelleymollykelley member

    imageshelly2314:
    I'm not sure if that's what it is either...I wasn't really in the conversational mood when my RE delivered the news. Thank you for letting me know about "chemical pregnancies" though. Whenever we get to try again, I will just have to wait it out.

    Yes, search for chemical pregnancy and you will see what it is and how common too. TTC is sometimes such a mindf***. I'm sorry you are where you are today but here's to looking forward to next time.

    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
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