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Farewell for now... :(

kc91181kc91181 member
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I took a short break from the message boards but wanted to stop by here before heading back to the IF boards.  We found out almost three weeks ago at what was to be my final appointment and ultrasound with the RE that I had miscarried the week before at 9 weeks. I was sent that day to a local surgical center to have a D&C. I had no pain from the surgery but the pain in my heart has been the worst pain I could have ever imagined.  I needed to take a step back from here for a few weeks. I still have bad days but things are getting a little easier day by day. I know everything happens for a reason and that this was and continues to be in God?s hands. I will begin bcp to prepare for our FET soon. I just wanted to say farewell for now but I hope to be back very soon. Thank you all for your support. See you soon.

**Loss Mentioned**

Me:34 DH:36
Married: 4/8/12
DX: PCOS/MFI


IVF #1 - April 2013 - BFP - Twin Miscarriage at 9 wks

FET#1 - June 2014 - BFN

IVF #2 - October 2014 - BFN - one frozen

IVF #3 - Coming October 2015!

**PAIF/SAIF Welcome**

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Re: Farewell for now... :(

  • TJ1979TJ1979 member

    I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I lost my first at 9 weeks too, and it is just so hard.  Big hugs and lots of thoughts and prayers to you.  Like you said, it will get better with time, but you will still have bad days.  And that is okay. 

    FX you are back really soon.  GL to you.

    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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  • kc91181kc91181 member

    Thank you!

     I just realized I posted this on the wrong board. I had been posting over at Pregnant after IF. I'm  embarassed. Sorry about that.

    **Loss Mentioned**

    Me:34 DH:36
    Married: 4/8/12
    DX: PCOS/MFI


    IVF #1 - April 2013 - BFP - Twin Miscarriage at 9 wks

    FET#1 - June 2014 - BFN

    IVF #2 - October 2014 - BFN - one frozen

    IVF #3 - Coming October 2015!

    **PAIF/SAIF Welcome**

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  • TJ1979TJ1979 member
    imagekc91181:

    Thank you!

     I just realized I posted this on the wrong board. I had been posting over at Pregnant after IF. I'm  embarassed. Sorry about that.

    That's okay.  I'm still sorry for your loss.

    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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  • kmc84kmc84 member
    Wrong board or not, many of us have been where you are now. I'm so sorry for your loss. Best of luck with your FET!
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    TTC# 1 since 5/10
    Me:34 Type 1 Diabetes, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Hypothyroid DH:35 Perfect
    DX: Unexplained IF
    Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
    IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
    IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
    IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13
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    IVF #4 May/June 2014 ER 6/4 18R 8M 8F ET 6/9 1 blast, 2 frosties
    Beta 6/18 BFFN

    FET of 2 blasts 7/24...BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w3d on 3/17/15

    TTC#3
    IVF #5 June 2018- PGS planned, no surviving embryos
    IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
    IVF #7 August 2019-....?
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  • imoveritimoverit member
    No! Im so very sorry for your loss. Huge hugs. I had my loss a few months back and the pain has lessened, but in the midst of it I was so angry, sad and thought the hurt would never end. So sorry.
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    I am so very sorry for your loss. I. Have been there and know how devastating it is. Sending tons of thoughts and prayers that your FET brings you a sticky BFP. (((((hugs)))))
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    After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!

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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    imagekmc84:
    Wrong board or not, many of us have been where you are now. I'm so sorry for your loss. Best of luck with your FET!
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    After two Clomid cycles, three injectable IUI cycles, two IVFs, two miscarriages, and one lap surgery, IVF #2 has brought us our little boy!

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    After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!

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  • OceanBreeze1OceanBreeze1 member
    I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. Big hugs!
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  • Mr. & Mrs. WoodtickMr. & Mrs. Woodtick member

    imagekmc84:
    Wrong board or not, many of us have been where you are now. I'm so sorry for your loss. Best of luck with your FET!

    This. I am so sorry for your loss.


    After 4 years, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs our surprise miracle is here!
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    RPL testing = normal

    TI Cycle #1, 50 clomid days 3-7, 150 iu Follistim days 8-11 = BFP! EDD May 22, 2014

    Betas: 13 DPO = 79, 15 DPO = 149, 19 DPO = 788, 22 DPO = 2031

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  • IBackBevoIBackBevo member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
    BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • queenbonequeenbone member
    I am so very sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
    Married 9-4-04

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  • itsmevkbitsmevkb member
    I'm very sorry for your losses.  It does get a bit easier with time.  I hope your FET is successful.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

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  • SaraevhSaraevh member
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    You hardly need to be embarrassed, kc.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Take care of yourself.

    This.  So sorry.  Good luck with your FET 

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