And BD is a no-show without a reminder...

twister22

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BD, DH, and I are attending a parent-only behavior modification class for parents of toddler/preschool children with ADHD. It is an 8 week class meeting on Wednesdays from 4:30-6. I have texted and emailed BD the dates, time, and location. The two weeks when I sent a reminder text the morning of and BD asks what time the class is and where it's at. The third week he doesn't respond, and shows up on time. So, yesterday, I didn't send a reminder text. I'm not his mom or his wife, I don't think I should have to. Guess what? He didn't show up.

I'm not surprised, but I'm still annoyed. Oh well.

Pamelacake

I would be annoyed too. esp since it's an important thing. =/

karatechrissy

I'm a micro manager... I would be tempted to send a passive aggressive e-mail or text. I'd probably decide not to in the end, but this is where my mind goes when crap like this happens. :-(

CFjo2010

karatechrissy:

I'm a micro manager... I would be tempted to send a passive aggressive e-mail or text. I'd probably decide not to in the end, but this is where my mind goes when crap like this happens. :-(

Ditto.  I would be so tempted to send him a text saying "Since you missed today's appointment, I'll email you the notes I took so that you can be prepared for the next appointment.  Will you be able to make that one?".  But I wouldn't actually send it, I'd just stew over it.

I'm sorry he didn't show up   

 

KTdidit

I'd be pissed and call him out on it. But that could have something to do with the fact that I'm already pissed at my son's BD.....

twister22

jobalchak:

karatechrissy:

I'm a micro manager... I would be tempted to send a passive aggressive e-mail or text. I'd probably decide not to in the end, but this is where my mind goes when crap like this happens. :-(

Ditto.  I would be so tempted to send him a text saying "Since you missed today's appointment, I'll email you the notes I took so that you can be prepared for the next appointment.  Will you be able to make that one?".  But I wouldn't actually send it, I'd just stew over it.

I'm sorry he didn't show up   

 

I'm not going to lie, I contemplated sending something several times, I never followed through though. I wonder when he noticed he missed the class, and if he's going to say anything. He's supposed to pick DS up tomorrow for the weekend...