Oh BM You are So predictable.

Pamelacake

Little backstory on how she used to pull out of her planned weekends,

BM would call about 20 times every Thursday to fight. BM ultimately wanted to tick DH off to the point where he would tell her she couldn't have SD's. I told DH he couldn't legally do that so he never did. Then BM would cancel for the weekend. or just for Friday evening and want to pick up Saturday. Saturday would come and BM was all of a sudden deathly ill.

Fast forward a bit..BM finally stopped doing this on Thursdays and now it's Mondays. BM calls with some lame excuse as to why she can't get SD's. Neither DH nor I have responded to anything. The last text sent to her said "K" B/C BM's last weekend to have SD's , BM called on Monday to say she wouldn't have gas money until Saturday morning (It was the first week of the month, and she gets a check at the beginning of every month) LIE. BM then called off for Saturday as well saying that she was sick. and once again.. BM was at the bar both nights!

BM called yesterday (Monday) to say that she would not have gas money to pickup until Saturday morning and please just accept it how it is and let her have them Saturday  morning. This weekend coming up is hers. BM's vm hasn't been responded to. DH is almost sure she will call back in a couple of days to cancel Saturday as well. BM must have forgotten that she used the gas excuse last time.

If BM doesn't back out, DH has no intentions on sending SD's on Saturday as he now knows he legally doesn't have to. Not to be mean.. but because of everything that has happened.  

As far as CPS.. Still NOTHING!!! SD's counselor asked me about it yesterday and she was in awe that DH has not been contacted.  

 

ETA: Sorry for my long posts.. I have no one to talk to about these things. lol

CFjo2010

Why does she even bother calling?  What's the point?  Just fade away into oblivion already and quite pretending to care...

Sorry, I'm Miss Cranky Pants today. 

Pamelacake

LOl.. I feel the same way! She really needs to stop... She is only hurting them.

And If she thinks she is messing up our plans she's dead wrong... they are included in any plans weather she says she will be here or not!