I posted on the IF board as well, but I am so upset right now I am seeking answers. Sorry to double post.
So here is my dumb question.
If I am bleeding very heavily 4 days after my ET it means it didn't work right? I am just totally devastated. I though that if it wasn't going work then I would get my period in a week or so.
Me:35, DH: 39
TTC since March 2011. All bloodword, SA & HSG are normal.
8/12: Clomid & TI - BFN
10/12: Colmid & TI - BFN
3/13: Clomid, Trigger & IUI - BFN
4/13: Gonal F, Trigger & IUI: BFN
6/13: IVF #1 (1AA blast & 1BB blast) = BFN
8/13: FET #1= BFN
10/13: FET #2= BFP!!!

Re: 4dp5dt
I did not experience this at all! I was put on progesterone 3 days after my IUI. On 11dpiui, I started my flow (heavy), but continued to take progesterone until my beta which was the next day. To my surprise (while still having heavy AF), I got a positive beta. Extremely low, but there. It doubled in 36 hours. I have another beta this afternoon.
I don't have any hopes for this to go far, but my RE said that I could not be mc(ing) and then have a positive beta. I could have implanted late, shed most of the lining, or had a second one that did not take. Not sure how much I believe all of that, but it's more of a theory than I can think of.
Keep taking the progesterone just in case and wait for the beta. IF sucks...especially with all of the waiting. I'm in beta limbo hell right now. I just wish it was one way or the other that way I could plan and move on.
Bleeding after an IVF cycle, while pregnant, is MORE common than you think. have you taken a test?