Has anyone had luck finding a nanny or sitter online other than at Care.com? I've searched Care and after 2 months if searching just can't seem to find the right person. I want to make sure the site is credible and safe, but am hoping there are options I haven't heard of. TIA!
BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12
BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks
BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14

Re: Finding a Nanny
I also found my nanny on Care.com and love love love her! I posted a job and had a lot of (unqualified) people respond, but I got the best results when I sent messages to people whose profiles I viewed and felt were qualified.
I'm not sure where you live but Urban Sitter is a place where friends of mine have had success (not sure if they are in your area). You could also try an agency, but those can be very expensive.
3 IUIs to get BFP w/baby #2
Lost baby #2 at nearly 12 weeks (D&C on 9/19/14)
We didn't have any luck on care.com, ourselves -- the nanny we did end up hiring (we only needed someone two days a week -- my parents cover the other three), we found via a personal reference. I just posted a short blurb on FB, and a friend recommended someone - and she was PERFECT.
At the same time, we were also in touch with a placement agency to help us out (another friend who is also a nanny recommended the service, which was helpful), since we had particular needs with preemie twins -- the candidate they found for us was also great, just not as good as the first we found. While the placement fees were a bit steep (standard 1 month's pay), we were willing to pay that for the peace of mind of finding the right person, thorough background checks, etc.
We had the great dilemma of having TWO amazing candidates -- we actually lost sleep over which one to choose (after having spent months prior losing sleep about not being able to find *anyone*)
Hang in there -- and keep looking. I know how absurdly stressful this process can be!
BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12
BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks
BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14