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February 2012 Moms
MrMrsandBaby
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Friday Confessions!
MrMrsandBaby
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Re: Friday Confessions!
Ok, I'll start!
There is a security guard at work who is totally built like a linebacker...tall, big guy (not fat, but big) and I have...ahem...vivid...daydreams about him sometimes. I really wish DH was built like that...
Now I need some alone time with my thoughts.
I never heard "Dirty Diana" until two days ago. It. Is. AWESOME.
Also - I fibbed to DH. I went to the VS semi-annual sale tuesday night and got some super cute stuff and a little silky black nighty with lace around the bottom and cups. When I got home with the bag, dh was like "So what did you get? A nighty? Psh hahahahah." So, i said "no, of course not" and ran back to VS last night to return it for another bra.
You march right back to that store and buy that nighty! It is worth it to see the look on his face when you wear it...and he doesn't get any adult time that night!
Oh yeah, Lena reminded me....
I totally lurk on other BMB's just to SMH at the posts! It helps me keep some perspective though, I remember the FTM feeling and lurking helps me cut back on my "you just wait" rants.
Holy acronyms batman!
I'm not sure if your DH just isn't into lingerie, but mine definitely isn't, and I really HATE that about him.
I guess my FFFC is that my DH and I have a wonderful relationship, but it always feels a bit more like a best friendship. He would definitely laugh at me if I put on a nighty. For Christmas I asked for pjs. I was hoping he would get me something sexy or at least silky. He bought be bright pink flannel pjs with cartoon-style monkeys on them. I mean WTF?!
I would have loved those pj's! We should trade husbands. DH always asks if I will wear the sexy stuff...I hate it. It takes longer to put on than it does for him to take it off (sorry, TMI) so I don't ever put it on anymore!
GUUURRRL, you gotta heat it up! (:
H would DIE from happiness if I put something lacy on.
My confession, if I am ever super horny, all I have to do it wear my bra to bed and H gets so excited and does wonderful things. haha
Bahahahahahaha!!!!!!!
I'm dying over here! Thank you!
Yeah, you just described my morning...
My hubs isn't a lingerie man either. His thoughts on them [and I quote], "the best place for lingerie is on the floor". I like it, because I really just don't like the stuff. Hubs much prefers to find me in bed naked, and I like it that way. Having to take off clothes, or work around them, just slows things down! Ha!
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I did this. I was 8 weeks pregnant with Addy. I had a significant amount of bleeding (considering I was pregnant that is). I knew there was nothing they could do if I was going to miscarry but I went for my mental health so to speak. I was of course freaking out and felt I would benefit from more information vs. just doing nothing. Looking back it was also probably wise that I went and got an U/S to rule out an ectopic. It turned out to be a subchorionic hemorrhage. I don't regret going to the ER at all, even though we had to deal with some unexpected medical bills because of it too. It was the best decision for me.
I do like the bra i got better than the nighty, so... the thing that bothers me about lingerie is that it puts the effort on me, you know? DH makes so little effort, and I hate that I have to take the initiative. i feel if I didn't, he be completely happy in a sex-less marriage, but I don't want to be the one that quits trying at it, you know? While I LOVE feeling sexy, he is just so content to read before bed, and I hate it.
Same. I'm getting nothing accomplished and I have a huge list of stuff that needs to be completed today. Stupid invoices and Quickbooks. Grrrrr
This is me. The other day DH made a comment about "not getting any" and me not ever trying to dress sexy for him. I'm sorry what exactly do you do to get me in the mood? I'm not asking him to put on something sexy (um weird) but a little something (neck massage, do the dishes, give the kids a bath, put the baby to bed, let me watch what I want on tv) could go a long way. I had an ex that would always give me a massage while I was watching one of my guilty pleasure shows and it would work wonders. Why do I have to be the one to always set the mood? It's annoying that it's my fault he's "not getting any" but he doesn't try and help me want to have sex.
I also went to the ER after bleeding. I was gushing blood for over an hour 4 weeks ago and found out I have a large subchorionic hematoma which can effect the health of my pregnancy. No bleeding since but I am on modified bedrest and have frequent US's to monitor the size of the clot. Of course there is nothing I can really do to prevent miscarriage but I am glad I went to the ER so that I now take all precautions I can. Always better safe than sorry in my book.
Have you brought this up with him? I firmly believe that no sex in a marriage is really bad. Not because you have pent up frustration or whatever, but because I think you need to come together, happily in bed. Intimacy is so important.
I took at preg test last night and this morning and got a BFN both times(I'm a week late on my period but the BCP I was on has had my cycle so wonky, so I am sure that I am not). This is the first time I have taken test that said "not pregnant" and haven't cried from dissapointment. I truly can't wait to have another baby but, I am so terrified of being pregnant after my loss my heart can't handle that right now!
Yes, we talk about it. Also him "not getting any" is because this week AF came to visit and so he has to go a whole week. Poor guy. He gets it plenty normally but it's just not always fun for me. I just get more annoyed that I have to do the "prep work" to get him in the mood but he doesn't have to for me. We have talked to our counselor about it a little but I think that will be our next topic when we go next week!
That IS so frustrating. Guys can "get it up" pretty easy, right? So why can't he do the "prep work", because let's be honest...it takes a little bit more to get things...ahem, ready.
Every single thing DH says today is pissing me off. It is like he is being annoyingly ambiguous on purpose when I ask him a question. Don't answer a question with a question. Just give me a f*ucking answer.
I really want to nut punch him. Days like this are why we need therapy (or beer)!
I really like McD's. We eat there 2 or 3 times a month. Maybe that's my confession!
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Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I thought we did a pretty good job with the debate. It's pretty clear that there are a bunch of different opinions on the matter. I made a choice not to comment on the opinions that I strongly disagree with. I am VERY pro-life, as you know, and no one will change my mind, as I know, I won't change anyone else's mind. Do you think you couldn't refrain from being rude?
This is a topic that invokes a ton of passion in a lot of people. My guess is that most people have very strong opinions on this topic that are held very deeply and very dearly for a variety of reasons (religion, women's rights, etc.). Personally, I've been trying to formulate a tempered response to voice my opinion on it that doesn't involve substantial judgment, and I can't come up with one that I think won't create a $hitstorm. Since, as you've said, it is highly unlikely anyone will change their opinion on this topic based on some internet discussion, I can understand why someone would want to avoid entering the debate.
I never doubted my ability to not be rude. My stance on the matter is what I'd consider, different, than the two sides that were dicussing the issues at hand and I feel that I may rub some people wrong. So, IMO, it's not worth it to even tell my side of the arguement because I don't want to offend someone who doesn't think the same way I do.
And I agree - the discussion that was had was very civil and adult.
Preferably Killians.
LOVE.
Emily- I had a large SCH too and have 2 healthy babies. Good luck to you!