Miscarried with no answers or help from GYN

kimikoo20

I am 28 years old, healthy, fertile and highly active.

My kids are now 11 and 9. Both born healthy and so beautiful.

Two moths ago, I started having pains in my lower left abdomen. They got so severe that I ended up going to the urgent clinic. I was 16 days late on my period and thought maybe it was an ectopic pregnancy. After a blood and urine test and an internal exam, I was told I'm not pregnant but need to get to a GYN due to lesions that were seen on my cervix.

A week later, I am seen at my GYN, no lesions. Urine preg test- negative. Did a pap that came back abnormal. Tuesday, May 28, 2013, I had a colposcopy done. GYN was testing me for cervical cancer. Called the GYN several times, only to be told it was normal and to get rest.

Wednesday and Thursday, I was cramping, nauseous and extremely fatigue.

Friday morning, I went pee, wiped and saw a specimen on the tissue. It was about a half dollar size, maybe a little bigger. Called GYN in a panic and was told it was nothing to worry about. Flush the specimen or throw it away. There was not a single drop of blood. Told me I did not need to be seen by the GYN and if I wanted to anyway "for peace of mind" I could get an appointment but not for another week or two.

I saved the specimen and went to the E.R. Had a miscarriage at 9 weeks pregnant. GYN still refusing to see me. Found a new GYN. Went for blood work and ultrasound. Was told it's a twin pregnancy and the other embryo is stuck in my fallopian tube. Blood work still pending.

My question is, how could this happen? I am so upset? How can a person have a miscarriage with no blood? Why so many blood and urine test but all negative? How soon can I get pregnant again? The embryo is still in my fallopian tube. It's been over a week. Can I get an infection from this?

I buried the miscarried embryo in a plant rather than trashing or flushing.

By the way- the urgent care facility, lab corp (who I forgot to mention said they have no record of me and lost the ultrasound and blood work initially) and my GYN are all JOHNS HOPKINS.

kimikoo20

https://s814.photobucket.com/user/dasexymilf/media/baby_zps4ca7a91d.jpg.html

 

^The miscarried embryo

On the left side of the specimen you can make out the head, eyes, arm and umbilical cord

fluttergirlmoonchild79

1. No one really wants to see pictures.
2. You'll get more help on the miscarriage board. This board is for worn who had late term losses, stillbirths and infant loss.

OSUWifey09

I agree - no one wants to see pictures. You'd probably get more answers on the miscarriage board, but I'd definitely leave the picture out and just give general details. Good luck.

Bayberry12

My question is, how could this happen? I am so upset? How can a person have a miscarriage with no blood? Why so many blood and urine test but all negative? How soon can I get pregnant again? The embryo is still in my fallopian tube. It's been over a week. Can I get an infection from this?


No one, on either board, can answer these questions for you. Only a Dr. will be able to help you. If you have an embryo in your Fallopian tube, seek medical attention.

Carolee

OSUWifey09:

I agree - no one wants to see pictures. You'd probably get more answers on the miscarriage board, but I'd definitely leave the picture out and just give general details. Good luck.

agreed...I'm sorry for your loss.