Annoying MIL

LittleBlip

Not only does she plan on "visiting all the time" when baby comes, which I don't enjoy visiting with her now as it is, she called and texted me this weekend 3 times saying "it's important call when you can" to tell me that she's being kicked out of her crappy apartment and doesn't like feeling insecure! We were in bad service area so i called her back today and she didnt even remember calling or texting me. She also asked that "maybe Jimmy csn come move my stuff with his trailer" which isnt ours, its my parents, and currently in use elsewhere, and "so maybe you could look for apartments for me" and always calls me instead of her son. I'm too nice to flat out tell her off, but I'm sick of these needy calls! So maybe instead of spending money on my baby, a car she doesn't need, cigarettes, and three different cell phones, she could put that money to better use and save! She always complains she doesn't have much money but my husband has made it clear to her we will not be lending her any money. He bailed her out of jail too many times when he was in high school and is sick of her crap. She has two other grown children she has burned bridges with we just happen to be the closest. I should have just said well we are really busy getting ready for the baby, and I don't want to be flat out rude by not offering to help, but this woman has had more than her fair share of help from us! I just want to be done! Did I forget to mention when we weren't yet pregnant she said "you guys need to have a baby so we can be our own happy little family" and rubbed my belly constantly at 8 weeks prego? There was nothin but fat there lady!!!!

MrsWilson2013

Sounds like you need to let her calls just roll to voicemail.. You are after all very pregnant and *forgetful*, so maybe you forget to call her back after she left you 17 voicemails ;-)

MrsHetzel

MrsWilson2013:

Sounds like you need to let her calls just roll to voicemail.. You are after all very pregnant and forgetful, so maybe you forget to call her back after she left you 17 voicemails ;

This. Lol

jackson290721

MrsHetzel:

MrsWilson2013:

Sounds like you need to let her calls just roll to voicemail.. You are after all very pregnant and forgetful, so maybe you forget to call her back after she left you 17 voicemails ;

This. Lol

bahaha this. Or just flat out tell her to back the fluck off. I like the blunt route.  

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somerandomchick:

When she wants to visit, just say no. Sorry, we're busy. Talk with your husband about how often you actually can stand seeing her and only accept her visits that often. People can't visit you against your will. Well they can try, but that's called "trespassing"

I agree with all this and your MIL sounds really annoying.  I'd stop lending money and helping her out ASAP.  She need to grow up and learn to be a big girl.