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UPDATE to being livid

imoveritimoverit member
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DH and I spoke to my mom about the haircut. We have decided to write out a contract like what people do for nannies, so that we are clear on our expectations. Thanks for having my back ladies. I hope I can look back on this and laugh about it. The haircut is pretty awful. :p
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Re: UPDATE to being livid

  • kmc84kmc84 member
    Glad you have a plan! I hope it smooths things out for you.

    On the bright side, at least you and YH can take LO to get his first GOOD haircut!!
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    DX: Unexplained IF
    Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
    IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
    IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
    IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13
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    IVF #4 May/June 2014 ER 6/4 18R 8M 8F ET 6/9 1 blast, 2 frosties
    Beta 6/18 BFFN

    FET of 2 blasts 7/24...BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w3d on 3/17/15

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    IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
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  • Mrs.AmyDylanMrs.AmyDylan member
    I'm glad you are getting things in writing. Sorry it had to be over something like a crappy first haircut. Btw, I hope she didn't want reimbursement for the haircut. 
    TTC Since 3/2010
    Me-36, Unexplained Infertility, DH-35, all clear
    Clomid 50mg 12/2011 = BFN
    Clomid 100mg 1/2012 = BFN, with Cyst
    IVF #1 Lupron/Menopur/Gonal-f/HCG Trigger
    ER 4/19/12 = 11 retrieved, 6 fertilized,
    ET 4/22/12 = 2 transfered (day 3), remaining 3 weren't good enough to freeze
    Beta 5/3 = BFP, 87 Beta #2 5/7 560.9 Beta #3 5/9 1376.5 First u/s One Baby, 125bpm!
    Second u/s, 176bmp! Kicked over to the OB by the RE at 8w. Team Green!! 
    Baby girl J arrived two weeks early! Born into water, med-free. Hooray for Team Pink!

    TTC #2 - back to the RE, treatment started 12/2014. 

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  • TJ1979TJ1979 member
    Good idea. I hope it works.
    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    Did your mom finally understand she was wrong and apologize? I hope so, and I think the contract is a good idea.
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  • itsmevkbitsmevkb member
    Give it a little time and I guarantee you'll be able to laugh at it.  I can remember when our first was little and my in-laws took him to see Santa without me and just all on their own.  I was pretty mad as I thought that was something the parents should get to do, or that they should of at least asked us.  Well, six years later I'm like whatever.  I'm sure at some point you'll look back at the pics of the bad haircut and tell this as a funny story.  In the meantime, I'm glad you're setting up some boundaries.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

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  • imoveritimoverit member
    imageDragonfly1226:
    Did your mom finally understand she was wrong and apologize? I hope so, and I think the contract is a good idea.


    Yes she FINALLY appologized after many excuses, but at least she got it in the end. I told her that I forgave her instantly. I was just hurt that that moment had been taken from us.
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  • imoveritimoverit member
    imagekmc84:
    Glad you have a plan! I hope it smooths things out for you.

    On the bright side, at least you and YH can take LO to get his first GOOD haircut!!


    LMBO!!!
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  • pb_bridepb_bride member
    Sounds like a good solution to me.  Hope your mom will honor your wishes.
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    Failed multiple cycles of Clomid+TI and Clomid+IUI

    3/2011 inj+IUI #1 BFP. 4/2011 missed m/c. 

    Fall 2011 inj+IUI #2&3 BFN

    Jan/Feb 2012 IVF#1 BFP 2/23  EDD 10/31/2012 ~~~ Halloween ~~~

    Our IVF miracle, Baby Boy M, arrived on 11/8/2012!
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